Have you ever feel that you failed with everything?

Australia
May 14, 2007 7:04am CST
Hello myLotter, that is what i feel now. I feel that i always failed everything i have done. I just don't know what had to do, everything i did is goes wrong. I try go make a blog, but i can't write well. Have you ever felt like me? Like you are nothing and you can get any success. I hope i can find what i want. God bless you all And thank you for your response.
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@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
14 May 07
Don't give up because you didn't reach pay out keep trying. I mean it's not worth quiting yet. I have failed before at a lot of thing but I don't give up easy either.
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• Australia
15 May 07
Thank you Shaun. I will stay and keep trying. God bless you
@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
16 May 07
your welcome
@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
14 May 07
it is because you think that you are.thus, you feel that you are but if you think that failing is a process of learning yo will learn to like failure as your bestfriend. in every new tasks that we do, we fail and if we don't then there must be something wrong.
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• Australia
15 May 07
Thank you tigerdragon. We can learn a lot of think from failure. Learning by doing, like a baby which learn to walk. God bless you
• Philippines
16 May 07
anytime little angel
@LittleMel (14055)
• Canada
14 May 07
You have to understand that you can not succeed in everything in life. There are always things beyond your control, things you can't achieve no matter what. Anyone who said they have never failed in life are liars. Anyone who said they can do anything in life have huge ego problem. What you have to do is don't say you can't do it until you try. You can try once or several times, a month or several years, then you can tell yourself "well I've tried my best, it didn't work. So I'll try something else" If you have given it your best shot and it still didn't work then it really is not your fault that you failed. If however you haven't done your best, then by all means try it again.
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• Australia
16 May 07
Hello LittleMel Thank you very much for your support, i will keep trying now. Until i well get success. God bless you
• United States
14 May 07
Of course we all have felt that way. But we can not stay in that way. I would love for you to read my blog and try to think about all the great thngs in your life and not focus on the bad. chooseityourway.blogspot.com add a comment and lets try to get out of that thinking. Trust me I have been there and stayed there I knew I was a failure. But that can change
• Australia
14 May 07
Thank you dawnskaggs God bless you
• United States
15 May 07
I relate to these feelings on so many levels - as a mother, as a daughter, as a sister, as a friend, as a professional, as a homemaker and so on. It's not an easy feeling to get over, but it's a goal certainly worth working toward. I just took a course where self-esteem was discussed in one of the textbook chapters. Here's what we were asked: Do you know anyone who sufferes from low self-esteem? How would you recommend tackling this problem? Why is it important to address now? It looks like this is what you're going through now and here's my suggestions to you: (1) find some support: you've already taken your first step in this area by posting here. Take it a step further and have some conversations about these feelings with friends and family. (2) reconnect with yourself: start a paper journal. I talk about this as a tool quite a bit because I'm a strong believer in personal writing through stress and things like that. You'll see yourself blossoming. (3) claim some resources: read Simple Abundance, Make Your Creative Dreams Real and The Artist's Way. These books have gotten me through some very tough times and, even though I started using them awhile ago, I revisit these books time and time again to revitalize and uplift myself. What you're going through is very natural. These feelings will continue to creep in and try to ruin everything. The key is learning how to battle them and knowing what weapons are needed during the fight.
@panicdude (457)
• Philippines
15 May 07
hello little_angel! everyone fails. but when we fail, we just don't give up. we learn from our mistakes and we try to improve. if you try, you can really get what you want. i failed many times but i try not to give up. just learn from your mistakes and you'll get better. just be passionate in everything you do and it'll be alright. God Bless! =]
@easyzheng (666)
• China
15 May 07
Very often I feel mysef a loser comparing with other people around me. I always see people doing something better than me or see people getting better rewords than me. But I have also be told by others that I was regarded as a more successful person than him/her. I think the problem is that we tend to be un-contented with what we have had but envy what others have.
@kayrod2 (1304)
• Australia
15 May 07
Hi little angel. Cheer up.You are not a failure. I think you are a wonderful person. Just look at all your posts and responses on here. If something doesnt work, try again. It is like falling off a horse, you pick yourself up and get back on. I have felt like you feel at the moment. It isnt nice. It takes a bit to get out of it, but you just gotta try. I hope you feeling brighter soon, and i am sure it will. God bless and best wishes to you, my friend
@healwell (1268)
• Ahmedabad, India
15 May 07
Failure is a part of life and no one is getting success in everything and all have to face failure in his/her life! But I surely remember that I was never affected by failure because I tried to learn out of that: What I have done is getting positive things/ aspects from the failure and go ahead. I believe that one has to try out to deal with cetain kind of reality which is giving you failure but proiding learning out of every thing! One has not to surrender to the frustation after failure each one has to sit and realize that ok, life and learning come this way then you are starting to get success and you have it!
@usernel (32)
• Philippines
15 May 07
I don't believe in failures. Because I believe failures are one way of teaching you to become a better person. Think Positively my friend. Whenever you make a mistake or get knocked down by life, don't look back at it too long, your failures are one way of teaching you.
@koikoikoi (1247)
• United States
15 May 07
Yes. I feel as though I have failed in life to live up to its expectations. I just feel like God is forgetting to reward me for the ggod that I've done. I feel that everything I do a good deed something bad happens to me and I just wonder why. I have friends that steal and one day I was with them while they were doing it in a locker room. They got money, an iPod, cell phones, and well more things. And at that moment I realized that people that do wrong are sometimes the lucky ones, the ones with the money, or the cool phones or ipods, clothes. I want something big to happen to me, a big reward.
@coolmailraj (2461)
• India
15 May 07
That is very much like what felt when no body visited my blog too. Not only the blog but the other things that I have tried to get some money or to reach the girl I love, almost everything in my life goes wrong and from the last five years it is happening continously. Lets hope in the upcoming time there will be something nice in store for both, you and me.
• India
15 May 07
Now iam feeling like that. Which field i had entered there is no sucess for the last six month. For this i had met an astrologer yesterday he told me that its due to the star sign it will gone after 1 year. Iam also in the belife that it will gone after one year. Other wise we will depressed "If there is a hope then only there is a life" so i also hope My time will come soon and every obstruction will be thrown away.
• United States
14 May 07
Well first off, How long did you try until you gave up? Failure only come's if you allow it! You just can't try for a day, a week, a month, or a year and then give up sometimes it takes longer than that to find success. It just dosn't happen over night. I see that you tried bloggin, you said but can't write well. Well that's an easy problem to fix, get a topic to talk about and be yourself, talk as if you were talking to your closest friend. If spelling is a problem for you there's always spell check. Don't feel bad. A lot of people including myself, feel or have felt like you do at one point when trying to be successful. It's a natural feeling you just have to stick it out and work harder.
@worldwise1 (14887)
• United States
14 May 07
Hi little. First of all, stop beating up on yourself-there are plenty others out ther who are willing to do it for you. If your problem is writing you could take a course in creative writing. Everyone gets down on themselves sometimes. I think it's called low self-esteem. Just try to think of all the good qualities you have. And remember that saying, "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again." Keep looking up, dear girl.