please tell me what to do

India
May 15, 2007 6:06am CST
it has been one and a half year of our merriege naw we want a baby but we are trying near about ten months but no result we r healthy and all well in spite of it not any hope . can anyone tell me what can be the reason behind it . i am very depressed in these days becoz i want a baby but could not successful. please help me?/
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• Philippines
29 May 07
Keep on trying. Try and try until success comes. Sometimes, it's advisable to go for second honeymoons, third honeymoons, etc. It's always worth a try and when it finally becomes a success, you wouldnt remember how is it like to be sad because you waited so long for the baby to come. Maybe you guys only need to get the right timing.
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@Gemmygirl1 (2871)
• Australia
22 Jun 07
I think the fact you're thinking about conceiving is the problem - if you think about it, it tends not to happen as you want. It also stresses you out when it doesn't happen so that will delay things as well. It took my partner & i many years to conceive & the moment it happened what the day after we'd agreed to wait 12 months & i would go to the USA for a visit with my pen pals - the trip didn't happen but we have a gorgeous baby girl now who has just gone 1. Stop putting pressure on yourself to get pregnant, it can take a while, especially if you aren't trying at the right time (about 12 - 14 days before your period is due). Just go with the flow, have fun & things will happen when they're meant to!
@itkasp (266)
• Australia
24 May 07
Please don't get depressed. If you stress out, it will be more difficult to conceive. Just try to relax. May be you could start with taking some pregancy supplement and folate tablets. They are good for you and your future baby. You might also want to consult with your GP and get referral to your specialist. Good luck
• Philippines
17 May 07
Have you tried consulting a doctor? My aunt and his husband were also desperate to have a baby before but you know what?God gave them a baby after 8 years of marriage. I guess if there is no health problem, you should just wait for God's perfect time.
@youless (81173)
• Guangzhou, China
16 May 07
Please don't get upset. I think it's better to go to see a doctor. After the check, you will know whether it's the physical problems. If not, then please be patient. Perhaps your cute baby is just on the way:) Good things are always come a little bit later.