Add Friends?

@marciascott (25554)
United States
May 15, 2007 9:30pm CST
What is the use, all of the new people wants to be friends but don't even reply too Post. you think they are just during it too say that they have a lot of friends. what is the use. I have over, I might be wrong, correct me if I am wrong, over 380 friends, none of them even answer your post. some do. I would say about maybe 50 out of all those freinds. Some could of left. Who knows, just think if all were referals I would be Ok. I wouldn't half to post as much. and I would make 25% of their earnings that is a joke. But what do you think about adding all these friends, and most of them don't even reply? Have a good week! I just what to know what is your idea about this? adding friends. I think they just want to join the club.
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28 responses
• United States
16 May 07
I will accept anyone that wants to be a friend but I know I can delete them if they are not responding to me or if they are creating a lot of useless discussions, I don't have a lot of time on mylot so I have to use it wisely.
• United States
16 May 07
Good stragedy! I add people as my friend because they seem to really put out some interesting discussions I would like to respond to and keep up with. The ones who are inactive are just that inactive. Time will weed out the bad friends from the good friends. BTW, your avatar is so adorable! :)
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@gberlin (3836)
18 May 07
That is what I do. Some people I accepted were starting discussions that kept getting deleted so I dropped them. I am not sure why there discussions were being deleted unless they were copying someone elses discussion.
@mnflower (1301)
• United States
16 May 07
I agree with you marcia seems like every time I get on anymore I have about 4 new people that want to be added as friends I am not sure if they think if you have alot of friends you make more money or what, but some of these people that want to be added to mine have only like 4 posts...how did they get my name and what is it that attracted them to my name to be added too..It is the guestion of the mylot today it seems...I know I have so many friends and my mail box gets filled fast so I had to go and change my email preferences here lately cause it just gets overwhelming....I would love to make even a penny a day from all my friends I could take some time off for being so friendly...lol
@marciascott (25554)
• United States
16 May 07
You hit the nail right on the head! Have a nice day Thanks, Marcie
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@huilee (1010)
• Singapore
16 May 07
Frankly, i dunno wats the use of adding friend as well? Im new here... Tts why... Hmmm, is there additional functions? Or perhaps its something like friendster?
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@huilee (1010)
• Singapore
16 May 07
Oh, really? Thanks for sharing... But, whats the usage of adding as a friend? Im not very sure about tt...
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@sodapop (977)
• United States
16 May 07
I am new here, but I try every day to answer my friends new discussions. But I have noticed that not many of my friends respond to mine. By the way, I have been meaning to tell you that I love your car!
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@marciascott (25554)
• United States
16 May 07
That was not My Car, if that why you pick my Avatar? LOL, I am just joking welcome to MYlot!
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@sodapop (977)
• United States
16 May 07
I still like the car, but since it's not your car, is it you in the picture? LOL..I enjoy your posts!
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@mari123 (1862)
• China
16 May 07
i dan't know where my friends come from?what their name.and they never concern my discussion,so i think add friends is useless to my earning,but to communite,i can get earning from my referrals,thay are inactive now,so i just to post and discussion by myself.
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@marciascott (25554)
• United States
17 May 07
Just keep posting and replying you will earn. just remember to answer more post.
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@mahmah (436)
• United States
16 May 07
I only have a handful of friends here so far and every day I read what their discussions are about. If I can think of a response that is longer than a one liner then I respond. If I an not interested in the topic or if I don't have a story or an opinion for it I won't respond. It is of course, nothing against the author of the discussions, a matter of taste so to speak. I request a friendship on the basis or atleast a basic common thread and I respond to as many discussions as I can. Although I have noticed that quite a few of mine never respond to my discussion (and the two referalls I have have done nothing since they joined) either. But there are a good chunk of them that do respond, and regularly. Pretty much I stick to a sort of theory, respond to mine, I will respond to yours (and vice versa).
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@marciascott (25554)
• United States
16 May 07
Gosh you should of got the B R. Have a good day! +++++
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@SheliaLee (2738)
• United States
16 May 07
Good Morning! I am one of your friends and I want you to know I'm sorry I haven't had a chance to respond to your posts recently, I have been extremely busy and it is going to be that way for at least another day. I just saw your discussion as I was glancing on MyLot for a minute and wanted to let you know that I haven't forgotten about you. Hope you have a great day!!:):)
@marciascott (25554)
• United States
16 May 07
Ok, You made me Smile thanks for replying. I will chat with you when your not busy, take care! You have a great day too!
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• Singapore
16 May 07
Hello my friend. Here's a perhaps. All of us have different tastes so it might be that though the topics you post are good, some people prefer not to answer. That's why it is always nice to have more friends so that more would hopefully be interested in your topics. There is no good or bad topics. Just whether you can find the match.
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@marciascott (25554)
• United States
16 May 07
Yeah Right! Have a good Day!
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@umavarma1 (926)
• India
16 May 07
i truely agree with you marcia..no one respond for our discussions..many requests you get to add friends but none of them repond to our discussions...so dont understand the use of it
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• India
23 May 07
thanks marcia that you felt my responce was true n best
• Philippines
16 May 07
I'm a newbie, and i think i don't match your description of those people who just want to make friends. I reply to every one of my friends and don't misjudge such people who are new and want to join clubs. You were also new before so i think you know what i'm saying. Anyway i'm not saying that you are wrong some people are like that. Anyway if you want pls add me to your friends list. Thanks friend.
@marciascott (25554)
• United States
16 May 07
Ok, as long as you promise to answer some topics, because a lot of the friends don't answer topics. Welcome to Mylot.
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@Generis (145)
• China
16 May 07
I'm a chinese . I came here just want to learn english or something else such as : let others know more about china. I have few friends here .The reason maybe I just posted one topic here or I seldom have time online to reply some friends's topics . Of course , my poor enlish always can't follow my thoughts , so it is not easy for me give you more comments . Pls give the new friends more time to give you reply : )
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@marciascott (25554)
• United States
16 May 07
Ok, I will do that! Have a nice day! welcome to mylot.
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@sensesfail (2251)
• India
16 May 07
It depends on who you accept and add as your friends.When i first got here.I used to choose everyone i sued to see and i realized that it was worthless. Because most of the people here leave mylot after they receive their first payout. So i made a point to revamp my friends list and select only the best--the people i trust.Of course i accept request that come in cuz i find it harsh if i don't.
@marciascott (25554)
• United States
16 May 07
Everyone has there own reasons.
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@naka75 (797)
• Singapore
16 May 07
If someone is so interested in making friends, at least they would have some courtesy to respond to your discussions. At least you know who they are.
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@marciascott (25554)
• United States
16 May 07
That is very true, I have forgotten who is who. I know that you are a friend. Have a nice day!
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@wonderful1 (2076)
• China
16 May 07
I don't know how to add a friend, I often add them when I see the numbers beside the 'friends'. I don't know how to add them activily. I add them all if they sent me requests. Frankly, I don't know why I should add them, just like you said that they often don't answer my discussions. I hope they are my referrals, I have no referral here. I like here(mylot), and I hope I can get more money here. But it is impossible if I can't get any referral here. How much do you earn from mylot? I think I can get $10 a month. But it can't pay for my electrical expense. I spent 8 hours on mylot, and I can earn $0.50 in a day, but I have to pay 0.55 for the electrical expense. So now I feel it is very important to increase my referrals. Good luck.
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@marciascott (25554)
• United States
16 May 07
the key is How will you get referrals. You really half to put your mine to work, I thought about making a blog which is good. to get exposure, I haven't finished it yet. I only made one for practice, I get the idea. but not that good with computers. I have not had one referal here, they check it out say they will jpin but don't.
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• India
17 May 07
why not i am here still a newbie and dont know much about mylot so i guess i will want to add friends in here so that i get used to mylot and meet new people and make new friends whom maybe i can help in some way and maybe they can help me out in someway. i guess making friends is the best way to get through everything in life cuz they are the only ones who come in help and do what they are required to do ;)
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@mamounz (248)
• Israel
16 May 07
i am new here but there is a lot of friends in my list. i get friend request every day. many of them i do not know how are they first i was accepting it then i stopped doing that. many of mylot member find this a way to raise there posts to there discussions since most of the members are making posts to discussions from there friends list. for my i have tow friends here i am adding posts to there discussions so i can talk to them there and i do not care if they add posts to my discussions or not. good luck
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@lamiaa (581)
• Egypt
18 May 07
i wonder from that too , when i find in my list some friends who asked me to became a friend , i always approve them not only that i ask for notify if they start a discussion , but i found that when i start one and i dont do that many , i fount that no one came and respond , even with my first respond to them , but i can't delete them , because what i don't like to happen to me i don't make it to another , so maybe i will stop the notify option only .
@marciascott (25554)
• United States
18 May 07
I think I need to go back and check to see if notify button is on, because a friend of mind here, was complaining saying I don't answert her discussion, usually when my friend email me it goes to my email. so I need to check on that.
@lamiaa (581)
• Egypt
18 May 07
i am glad that i remind you because now i think so seem forget about it ,so i hope they remember .
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@gberlin (3836)
18 May 07
I usually add new friends unless they are kids. I try to answer all of my friends posts. I am working full time and yesterday I was sick with the stomach flu so I was not even on the internet. I am in the process of catching up once again.
@marciascott (25554)
• United States
18 May 07
I hope you feel better, Happy Friday! Have a good day! thanks Marcie.
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@gberlin (3836)
22 May 07
I am feeling much better! Thank you. Still trying to catch up!
@disvachic (10121)
• United States
18 May 07
I have over 300 and some change and most of them dont even respond to my discussions.I said a while back that i wasn't going to delete because of this but im trying to figure out why in da world they wanna be friends.I dont even see them in my discussions or anything.I'm really thinking about deleting.I guess they want their list to be big so they can get many responses
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@marciascott (25554)
• United States
19 May 07
That could be, I think you are right! have a good one!
@kclaret59 (587)
• Philippines
18 May 07
i think they just want to be friends with someone who has posted a lot like you.. hey, you have 6818 there/!!1 that is, as of may 18,2007.
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@marciascott (25554)
• United States
18 May 07
Do you think that is what it is? I really don't know. Have a nice week-end!