How many of your friends or referrals have left mylot ?
By APasserBy
@LittleMel (8742)
Canada
May 16, 2007 2:23am CST
I guess you can tell they left because their post counts have stayed the same for many months, or probably they said goodbye to you some time ago.
I noticed about 8 in my friends' list have gone. It's not that I remember how many post count they had when they first became my friends. I just didn't see their discussions for more than 2 months now.
How about you? how many friends or referrals have gone and do they ever notify you about their leaving or at least post a topic about leaving mylot?
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5 responses
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
16 May 07
I noticed the same thing...people are gone...some of them I deleted, just to make it easy. Some I just deleted, because they never communicate with me other than sending spam to my message box.
My referrals are not active or show up once a month...
That's OK, I am glad you are still here..:)))
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
16 May 07
hehe I'm glad you're here too :) I always like your discussions and then I know you can read people, wow cool!
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
16 May 07
;)...Sometimes is not cool...especially when I meet people who are on "dark side"(no other description is coming to my mind)...it is scary...
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
16 May 07
you're right. Oh I hope this doesn't happen often when you are alone with them..
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
I'd say I have more than 20 left mylot. more than 10 are inactive. referral wise I'm not as lucky to get active ones
@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
17 May 07
Three of my four referrals have left myLot or rarely use it. I only have one active referral using this site and she loves it. Someone else referred me and I do not believe he is using this site either but is still a member and making money off of me. One of the three that left is not friends with me anymore and the other two either do not have time or are not interested in this site. They do not leave a goodbye message or private message.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
so based on your situation, 4 members are either inactive or left mylot completely. Only two, you and your referral are active, which is only one third of total 6 members.
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
17 May 07
i have about 59 friends on my list, but i feel like there are only 4-5 of them that is there, i know alot of them stop posting or responding, i dunno what happend to them or where did they go. but there is nothing i really can do.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
17 May 07
yes there is nothing we can do, it's their prerogative to do so. I just hope they didn't end up scammed, like I've been burnt before.
@little_angel (2458)
• Australia
17 May 07
Hello LittleMel
I never manage my friend list LOL
I just replied their discussion everyday, not all but some of them, picked a random for that.
I don't really know what are friend for, i though that for response discussion and make a more friend.
Do I have to manage my list, and delete my friend if they not logged for a long time
God bless you
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
17 May 07
I've heard members doing this to their friend list, but this is the first time I did it in 4 months I am here. I haven't deleted anybody yet although I'm sure they're gone because their last discussions were months ago.
It's your choice whether you want to manage it or not, I don't even pay attention until a few days before posting this topic :) I only know I start to feel more comfortable here among mylotters and try my best to respond to their topics
