when betray happens what should be blame?

China
May 17, 2007 1:53am CST
there are so many such stories:a person who has his own spouse "fall in love with "other woman,genarally speaking,this woman maybe more beautiful,or maybe younger or may have more money.in a word,she has advantage over his spouse.then the man betray his wife,under this condition,we may say "woman are virtue,they acctract married man",or we may say "money can do all",then the man who betraies his wife is responsible for nothing?I think it is the man who can not control himself,he is wrong. will you betray your spouse for those things?
2 responses
@joice86 (1078)
• Philippines
17 May 07
For me, no one should be blame when betrays happen because they both have their shortcomings. There must be a reason why it happened and that you should not blame your partner for that. If you have problems, then try to talk about it and try to sort things out....In that way, they can tell to each other what are there problems...They should have open communication.
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• China
17 May 07
yes,sometimes ,something bas happens always just because the lack of communication.
@joice86 (1078)
• Philippines
17 May 07
:-)
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
17 May 07
I cannot betray my spouse, for whatsoever reason. Beauties, wealth, youngness... nothing can seperate me from my spouse.
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• China
17 May 07
it is so kind of you and your spouse is lucky and happy