Have you been "dumped" on mylot?

@4cuteboys (4102)
United States
May 17, 2007 6:23pm CST
LOL, I have noticed that a few people that were on my friends list, that I actually liked, are no longer on there. I didn't delete them, so obviously they "dumped" aka deleted me. Have no clue why, nor do I care. I'll just make sure to stay away from their posts from now on since they obviously don't like me, haha. What about you? Have you been "dumped" on mylot?
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11 responses
@BrainTeaser (1430)
• Pakistan
18 May 07
I didnt noticed anything i havent requested many to be my friend they added me and now if they delete me its just their own decision and i guess they should as i have not been that much active this month in mylot so not many responses from my side for the month to them.
@Swtrose (3399)
• Canada
18 May 07
I don't pay much attention to it, but I dumped a couple people and in all honesty I wish one person would quit replying to my discussions, but I can't stop them. lol You're still on my friend's list. Please don't dump me. :( lol :)
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@4cuteboys (4102)
• United States
18 May 07
LOL!! I am not dumping you! But thats what I figure, if I got dumped I better stay away from their discussions, they might be sick of me ;)
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@Swtrose (3399)
• Canada
18 May 07
I can now say that I have been dumped. I won't highjack your thread, but apparently I censor people. lol
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@4cuteboys (4102)
• United States
18 May 07
Oh my, how does it feel to be dumped?! lol!
@sunshine4 (8709)
• United States
17 May 07
I don't know if I have been dumped. When I joined mylot I just accepted everyone that wanted to be my friend. I wish that I could go back and redo the whole thing. Now I have way too many friends to know who is who. I look for certain ones that I enjoy participating in their discussions. Then I go to the discussions my friends started to try to help the other friends that I forget about.
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@4cuteboys (4102)
• United States
17 May 07
I went thru my list and deleted the ones that I thought were spammers, because I was adding everyone at first that wanted to be my friend, and now I know better!!!
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@sunshine4 (8709)
• United States
18 May 07
I think that is what I will do also. I don't want anyone to think I am dumping them though.
• United States
18 May 07
I have to admit, I am a "dumper". That sounds so bad lol. Since I am still new here I didn't have many people on my list. The other day I was upset because it seemed like no one on my friends list was answering ANY of my discussion so I went though and deleted the ones that had NEVER responded to a post I made. Those that were left got to read how I felt and made up for it more then I had very hoped for. I would have been happy with just a post here and there, what I got was almost all my recent posts being answered. If I have been dumped it is ok, I just know who my "real" friends are and love them even more.
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@4cuteboys (4102)
• United States
18 May 07
HA! So you are a dumper! ;) It does sound bad doesn't it? I had no idea how else to describe it when I made this post lol!!! Aw, well I like your discussions, and thanks for adding me!!!!! I like your hubby's too!
• United States
18 May 07
Thanks for adding me too :-) I promise not to "dump" you without telling you why first. I have made a couple of new friend the last 2 days so now I am trying to find their discussions and trying tp post to those. I take my responsiblity as a friend very serious :-) Hubby does have some good discussion but I try to stay away from them. But the one I couldn't help myself on was the chance to bash him pubicly lol.
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@munhozmib (3853)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
17 May 07
Well, I never checked my Friends list. Some people add me, I just accept and never take a look anymore. I'm not willing to make friends on MyLot yet. Only after I receive one payment. Before that, I won't want to make any friends. Well, maybe people deleted you because you don't respond to their discussion, or because you don't reply to their messages... Not that they don't like you. There could be something else.
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@4cuteboys (4102)
• United States
17 May 07
The ones that I know deleted me, I definatly responded to their discussions. Oh well, their loss ;)
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@munhozmib (3853)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
28 May 07
Yeah, their loss. Some people are just like that. Sorry it happened to you.
@KrisNY (7591)
• United States
18 May 07
Heck I can’t remember from day to day who is on my list- I try to answer certain people that I find interesting- Yes you’re one of them if you couldn’t tell—So if you dump me- I’ll know- : ) But really I’m like you- if they dump you- heck with them! Or maybe they have been dumped from the site all together-
@4cuteboys (4102)
• United States
18 May 07
They still post. I had to pull out my secretive detective work to look them up and see. hahaha!!! :) I won't dump you!!! I dont know who mostly is on my list. I'd say there are 10-15 though, that I would notice if they dumped me, maybe a few more. Ones that I like alot! No one else better dump me. hehe. Don't worry! I wouldnt dump you!LOL!!!
@Michele21 (3094)
• United States
17 May 07
If I have I haven't noticed =) I don't pay attention to things like that, but if you dumped me I would notice =) And a few other people, I like certain discussions and would miss them =) So I guess maybe I would care...if it was somone who had a lot of the same interestes that I do, like kids and whatnot.
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@4cuteboys (4102)
• United States
18 May 07
LOL I think I noticed because all the dumpers had good discussions, guess I don't have good answers..LOL!!! :)
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• United States
18 May 07
I've only been here for a week so I haven't been dumped yet but I referred quite a few people that joined but never post. Ugh, that's annoying! Anyways, don't let it get to you. Maybe they realized that you don't have much in common?
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@banta78 (4335)
• India
18 May 07
I feel dumped is a strong word. I think if someone deletes you as a friend it is their loss so one shouldn't loss sleep over it. Besides if you have over 250 plus friends like i do it is not humanly possible to respond to everybody's discussions all the time. I feel quality of friends is more improtant than quantity. good luck. happy posting. :)
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• United States
18 May 07
I appear to have the same amount of friends as I have had in the past, so no I haven't been dumped yet. Those people don't know what they are missing, their loss for dumping you!
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@foxyfire33 (10009)
• United States
18 May 07
I was going to start a discussion very similar to this tonight too. I hadn't noticed a friend's discussions on my list of discussions started by friends in long enough that I was getting worried about her. I admired her very much and was afraid something had happened to her. I went to my friends list so I could check her profile to see for sure just how long she'd been gone but she wasn't listed anymore. I didn't delete her so I guess she deleted me. I'd love to know why because I can't think of a single thing I could have done to offend her. I used an old message to get to her profile so I know she is still active. I considered sending her a message for an explanation or in the hopes that it was just a mistake but that might just make it worse. I won't avoid any of her discussions that I do see but I'll think very carefully before I respond to any.
@4cuteboys (4102)
• United States
18 May 07
Yeah, I was wondering that too, why I hadn't seen any of their discussions so I was pawing thru my friends list and saw they were all gone quickly since they were on the first page! Poor us, well i'll be your friend, hehehe :)
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@foxyfire33 (10009)
• United States
18 May 07
My "lost friend" was also right on the first page of my list. But in all reality I didn't have much in common with her so probably wasn't starting discussions she could respond to. I admired her work though but looking at it that way it was a one sided "friendship". I've denied request because they didn't seem to have any common interests with me so maybe that's all that happened with her. She may have just been cleaning out friends she wasn't "connected" to and I happened to be one of them and she didn't know how much I thought of her...{me shrugging shoulders} I approved your request. I'd seen you around before but didn't request you because I thought you already were on my list...my bad, guess I should check my list more often!
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@4cuteboys (4102)
• United States
18 May 07
I thought the same thing, isn't that funny?! Like I had to look thru my list twice before I posted cause I thought you were on mine, lol!! Oh well, poor us. Dumped! haha
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