Not be here

By Gabs
@gabs8513 (48715)
United Kingdom
May 19, 2007 2:11pm CST
I am sorry to say that I will not be here as much You will not be seeing Discussions of me or many Responses I am very sorry for my Friends but enough is enough I have tried to help a Friend here and again I got the Kick in the Teeth for it not from the Friend themselves But when I find that I am being removed from a Friends List for no apparent Reason at all or a reason I am not aware of then it is enough for me So if anyone else would like to remove feel free to do it as it can't upset me more then what I am right now I don't mind if I knew the reason and if it was not a Friend that I classed as a good Friend but it has happened and it was the last straw for me So to all of you who are my Friends please do not worry when you hardly see me This has upset me I will be doing what I have in my Mail today and then I will see from there This week has been hell for me and this has just finished it To all my Loving Friends I am sorry but again I have been knocked and it is the last time now my trust is broken I am sorry Yes some might read this and think what a stupid Person maybe I am but I am sick of being kicked when trying to help
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41 responses
• United States
19 May 07
Dear Gabs...sorry that someone has treated you so wrongly. I for one have enjoyed reading your discussions and your responses to mine. You are a great person. It saddens me that someone could hurt you so. Huggers to you.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
19 May 07
Thank you Sweet Friend but I think they where getting boring now anyway But thank you for your lovely words Love and Hugs to you
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@TerryZ (22083)
• United States
19 May 07
Hi Gabs I dont know what happened but I certainly dont like it. Im sorry if someone has hurt you and if it happened to me I would be upset too. But listen sweety dont stay off here because of someone who is not really your friend afterall. You thought they were but they arent. And as you well know life is is full of suprises. Please just think about this dont deny yourself by leaving all you the people who really care about you.The hell with this person.
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
19 May 07
Terry I have been kicked so often and it hurts But I think this Person has their Reason and I have just been informed that I am not the only one of this Persons List so I really do not know what is happening Love and Hugs
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@TerryZ (22083)
• United States
19 May 07
Oh okay so who needs them. Stay with us Gabs we all love you.Please?
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
19 May 07
Awwwww Terry I would never leave any of you from my own free will I promise you that my week has been so bad this just knocked me and I am so stupid and insecure at times I really am Love you Sweetie
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@tammyr (5955)
• Etowah, Tennessee
19 May 07
Oh dear, I am so sorry! I removed a lot of friends today, but only the ones i don't connect with often. I left you on there for sure. I am also going to turn on the notify for you. I want to know when you are here. I am not going to be here a lot either, so I do hope I will see you around some. I have come to know you and love you ans gissi. I will be think ing of you and missing you when our paths do not cross. I am sad here lately and kind of bored, and with everything going on with a few of my friends I am not as happy as I was. I am sure to still be here, but not as much, and I do want to keep up with you.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
19 May 07
I know what you mean Sweetie if you want my Email address Pm me and I will send you it Love and Hugs to you
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@charms88 (7541)
• Philippines
19 May 07
Oh dearie, I do not know whom you are referring to but I hope this will not stop you from hanging on here. I wasn't deleted yet by anyone here. But I was denied friendship numerous times before. I know what you're feeling though. Its like being rejected in real life. In the meantime, take your rest. Enjoy your time with Gissi. I shall miss you here. Why is it that a lot of my friends are missing lately. I have a few who hasn't been here for quite a while. I will always send you one of my special email everyday. "hugz"
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
19 May 07
I have been denied I can deal with that But this was a good Friend and I don't know why Also a few of my Friends have been banned and I really do not want to be next and these where good Friends and to be honest I am scared to log in every Day in case I can't I am not a vicious or nasty Person and anyone who knows me will know that You are in my thoughts and you will get Emails to I will be on occasionally for a time till I feel secure to be here like I used to I love this Site and I love my Friends but this is to much at the moment
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• United Arab Emirates
19 May 07
Hey! Take it more easy and don't make it for all. You still have so many good friends and I guess they all like you and me one of them though I'm used to read your discussion from a short time but I smell good marks from your discussions and I like them. This can happen for each one of us, they do this without any kind of knowledge for the results or the reaction for the other user.
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
19 May 07
Thank you Nady so much for those kind Words I really appreciate them Hugs to you
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• United Arab Emirates
19 May 07
You are welcome my friend :)
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@crazy1 (480)
• New Zealand
19 May 07
What, who why,? this is weong and so sad. Hugs for a good friend
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
19 May 07
Well that is how it goes Love and hugs
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• Singapore
20 May 07
Must be honest to say that I don't know what happened. In any case, I think it is never a bad thing to take a break from time to time. Chill out, have a kit-kat. ;-)
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
20 May 07
Lol wiz thank you and I will have one but the misunderstanding has been cleared but yes I will be taking a break soon as I am going to visit the Kids at the end of the week for a few Days
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• Singapore
20 May 07
Clear up? That's good news, way to go!! ;-) Now go take a nice sweet break. ^^
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@Katlady2 (9920)
• United States
20 May 07
Hon, I am so sorry you have to keep going through stuff like this. You are definitely NOT stupid in any sense. I don't blame you for being so frustrated with people. I think you should just go ahead and take a break for a little bit, and do like you said and wait and see what happens and how you feel later. Your true friends will understand and we are here for you no matter what. Love you hon.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
20 May 07
Thank you my loving and caring Friend but as you know it was a misunderstanding because silly here did not look into it further Kat it has just been to much this week it really has and that is why I jumped to conclusions before checking like I normally do Love you Sweet Friend I really do not know why you all put up with my silly insecurity at times I have to control it no matter how bad my week has been
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@Katlady2 (9920)
• United States
22 May 07
It's because we love you so much, you're NOT silly, and you put up with our (my) neurotic moments too. LOL
@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
20 May 07
Ok gabs I dont know what ahppened but you have to over look some people you cant just leave us and we can have no more stories about Gizzi and you and every thing judst think and suck it up one person shouldnt huurt you this much it isnt woryth it am sorry you are hurt but think about it it wa only one personthat took you off friends list I have took aoff many that dont seem to have my intrests dont mean I dont like them just I have no respnce to give to their post come on now get with it girl! Get out of this funk NOW!
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
20 May 07
My dear Friend you have known me the longest from when I came on the net and you know how bad I can get as you have picked me up many a time and it was all a misunderstanding and because things are getting to me at the moment I did not look into it first I won't leave you all you know me better I am going away end of the week so I will get a break and calm down again Love ya
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@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
20 May 07
ok as I have already talked to you this morning am hopeing al works out ok. and have fun this weekend on your travels! hugs
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@mskzalameda (4036)
• Philippines
20 May 07
its sad to here that that person who deleted your name from his list has lost a very wonderful friend. Maybe he is only here for the money and not for friends. Maybe you don't answer his discussions and he thinks that friends are for answering his discussion and so he deleted you. Mylot is a big online community. Not all of your friends can answer every single discussion a single person started. Maybe he's expecting too much from you since you have high ratings here. Some friends are just like that gabs. They are friendly user. Don't mind them, we're still here to support you all the way.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
20 May 07
Sweetie it has been sorted so everything is ok now but thank you for your lovely Words I really appreciate them Hugs
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@AskAlly (3627)
• Canada
20 May 07
Oh dear Gabs. I just popped in to do some errands and such for the weekend before I head back out to the middle of nowhere. I am so sad to see that one of the first discussions I see it yours and you are sad!!!! I have no idea what happened, but it is a shame that we even have to have discussions like this one. Just take a deep breath and I hope you are still around when I get back next time.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
20 May 07
Ally I am so glad that you are here I don't know why but you disappeared of my Friends list so I have put a request in now to get you back on it I noticed it a week ago and I knew you where not here so I really do not know what has happened I hope when you come back you will accept it is good to see you again and things have been sorted Hugs to you
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@MsTickle (24993)
• Australia
20 May 07
You are very much loved here gabs, you and Gissi. It's folk like you who keep us all in the knowledge that good, kind, loving and sincere people are real. I hope after a couple of days, things have settled down for you. I'm so terribly sorry that events have been so hard for you this week. I hope there is a ray of sunshine and a rainbow just around the corner for you. Love and hugs..oxoxox
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
20 May 07
Thank you Ms Tickle as you know it is sorted but I have to climb out of the hole that I am in this week I really do Thank you for caring Love and Hugs to you
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@msjigga (866)
• United States
20 May 07
gabs I am so sorry someone has knocked you. I can relate I have not been your friend or the other persons very long and I too got dropped like a hot potato for no reason at all. I responded to discussions this person posted if I could relate to their discussion and this person never responded to any of my discussion. No my disussion may not apply to everyone but to drop me like a hot potatoe for no reason is JUST NOT RIGHT!!! I feel your pain but dont let this jerk get the best of you.
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
20 May 07
Well Sweetie I have found out it was a mistake and misunderstanding the person had their reason But yes it hard specially when it is a good Friend that you always got on with but it is sorted now I just jumped to conclusions without thinking about it to be honest and I should have done and if it is the same person as with me there is a reason
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@ausnikki (4055)
• Brisbane, Australia
20 May 07
Hi Hun,I'm sorry you are having a rough time of it at the moment.Having a couple of days off may just be what you need to relax and calm down.I have been hurt many times myself but I guess that's what happens when you always try to find the good in people.Sometimes there just isn't any good there unfortunately.I hope you come back soon and let us know of your adventures.Love and hugs
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
20 May 07
Sweetie you know by now it has been sorted stupid mistake on my art Love and hugs to you
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@crickethear (1420)
• United States
19 May 07
Gabs I am so sorry to hear that. Don't let someone keep you from continuing. I know that it is upsetting, and insulting, but think of all the ones who are loyal too. You would be doing the same thing to us, that you are feeling from them. So please don't leave. It would make me sad, and feel like I am not worth staying on. I am sure your other friends will feel that way too.
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
19 May 07
Awwwww Cricket I was not going for good just a bit of time out and I know the reason now to and it is nothing to do with me I just let my Insecurity take over which was stupid just my week has been so bad I just jumped before checking which I normally do not do I just want this week over lol I really do
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@nannacroc (4049)
19 May 07
Gabs, I for one will. You're not stupid, just too caring for your own good. I won't remove you, just wait for when you feel better. I'm sorry to hear that you've been upset, I know it was the last thing you needed after the week you've had. I hope you try and have some 'me time' and come back refreshed, then delete the 'needy' friends as you need more support than they do at the minute. Hugs to you and I hope you'll be back soon.
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
19 May 07
Thank you Nannacroc even though it has been cleared up I will take a bit of less time on here I think for a couple of Days and concentrate on Gissis blog and my Book a bit I will still be here as I do love my Friends on here and I love this Site Thank you for caring so much yes I have had a really bad week and I jumped to a conclusion before checking it out which I normally do not do Love and Hugs to you
@mssnow (9493)
• United States
19 May 07
Hi Gabs I'm sorry this is happening to you. I too am planning on not being here as much. Seems like all of my friends are leaving as well. Why bother. i no longer come here for the few cents i receive i come here for my friends. if they are all leaving or getting kicked out then I don't need to be here either. Hugs Gabs. i wish you the best of luck :)
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
20 May 07
Snow it has been sorted and I wish you would reconsider don't leave as I also think a lot is to do with the Weather and that but please keep in touch Love and Hugs
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@mssnow (9493)
• United States
20 May 07
I dont think wolfie is coming back and i know fifty isn't. I will be around once in a while to read my messages and to answer a few discussions but just not as much as before. Thanks for being a good friend gabs Hugs
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
20 May 07
Awwwww Snow I am sorry if you want my Email let me know I will send you it Love and Hugs to you
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• Canada
19 May 07
Hey Gabs, even though we just met. I fully understand what you're saying. No one deserves to be taken granted like that. It's unruly and unfair. Maybe this person did have a valid reason, and forgotten to mention it to you. Did you ask this person why they did that? I'm sure there's a logical explanation as to why. The worse for me, since being on Mylot is just having an opinion and someone else taking my opinion to heart.. feeling like I was offending them on purpose! So yeah, I know what you mean by saying and I quote.... "I tried to help a Friend here and again I got the Kick in the Teeth for it from the Friend themselves But when I find that I am being removed from a friends list". You know gabs it's not everyday I quote somebody. And no I'm not trying to start any wars. But they should give you a reason. Considering there one was a bond. Well where I come from, being considerate.. says that your mature enough to handle such a responsibility!
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
20 May 07
Jazz Sweet it is sorted they did have a reason and it is all sorted and I will take Jimbo's advice lol I have just had a bad week and I just jumped to the wrong Conclusion stupid me I normally don't I normally check things Thank you for sincere words
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• Canada
20 May 07
that's OK, Gabs. Heck you're only human! To err, is human. We're suppose to make mistakes and learn from them. And.. I just noticed your other discussion.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
20 May 07
Thank you Jazz and you are a good and supportive Friend to I am glad you are one of my Friends Hugs
• United States
19 May 07
this breaks my heart. there has to be a reason and i know you don't want to ask them, but i want you to think of how many wonderful friends you still have. we love what you write, we love who you are, and we love dear gissi! please hang in there, let us know if there's anything else we can do. your comments and posts are always wonderful, i can't understand this situation. you are still loved, continued hugs to you and gissi!
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
19 May 07
Sweetie with your PMs you have helped me a lot and I mean a lot Thank you for that so much Sweetie and I will not go for good Big Hug to you
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• United States
20 May 07
just keep in touch!! you're awesome!!
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• United States
20 May 07
oh, and you're welcome!! lol, oops!!
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• United States
20 May 07
I'm thinking that someone went to clean out useless people from their friends list, & accidentally removed you, but only by accident. If I had one USA dollar for each time I was a victim of that type of accident, I'd own MyLot by now. Some of us has been through far worse & are still hanging in there, such as discussions being copied & reposted as their own, losing points, or just being put through misery. Take a look at response #3. He's been through worse. He's even mentioned what happened in his dicussions.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
20 May 07
Krazy you should know me by now and I have had all that has been to me and been victim of verbal abuse on here But I think you know what my Friends mean to me anyway as you know by now it has been a misunderstanding and stupid Gabs in her emotional State got it wrong
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• United States
20 May 07
Well - one of those who removed me & I invited back assuming that it was an error ... I just realized that I responded in such a way, not implicating who it was ... twice. As people know, I come to MyLot using the saved URL of Discussions My Friends Started. I saw two that I was going to respond to. I went & responded to the first one, & then when I finished, I went back to that list of discussions my friends started, & spent three hours trying to find that second one. I had what should have been rightfully the best response all planned out, & was trying to go for it. I finally found out that the reason I could not find the discussionw was because because I got kicked off that person's friends list, but stumbling upon that discussion. I went & made my no-longer elaborate response, & mantioned that I wasted hours trying to find this discussion.