torn between two lovers?

maria - hmmm a picture of a very fine woman....
Philippines
May 20, 2007 2:50am CST
have you ever been in a situation where in you are torn between two lovers...? the first is the one you love the most bu does not love you back? the second is someone who love you deeply but you don love much... whom would you chose?
6 responses
@SatoNa (247)
• Indonesia
20 May 07
Ya.. I have ever been in situation like that. I like my senior class in junior high school. and the boy who loved me, he and I always had a chit chat about online games.. Then he asked me to be his girlfriend. I thought it wasn't wrong to accept it.. because my senior didn't know me and he had a girlfriend. And I like him too, even for a friend. so, I accepted to be his girlfriend. I think I can love him.. But it didn't work at all. after 1 month, I broke up with him because I didn't like his overacting.. and I never spoke to my senior.. So I didn't choose anyone.. =)
@Phlamingho (7831)
• Denmark
20 May 07
Well it dosen't sound like there's much of a choise there... If lover unmber one dosen't love you back then there can never really be anyhting serious.
@jazmin08 (173)
• Philippines
20 May 07
been there,done that,ends up with myself...heheheh
• Philippines
20 May 07
yes it happens to me but i never choose because i know it will bring so much pain to me and to the one who loves me deeply. i let them go and love freely. the one i really love.. we're friends now even if i still love her and the one who loves me deeply, everything is better now. he is having a new girlfirend and he promised me that he is going to love taht girl better than he love me.
• India
20 May 07
Yeah i have been in such a situation, but i didnt even care about the person who loves me....but i just wanted the person i love and i fought for him, i won him and now i am with him, just loving each other so much equally. But thinking back, i shouldnt have broke th eother guy's heart so much but i did AND I should have not encouraged of any thing else but frioendship.......
• Philippines
20 May 07
yup thats happened to me. i would rather choose the one who love me but i dnt love him that much. coz i know he love me. not like that one i am only the one who's loving him. maybe in time i can learn to love him much more thatn he love me.