would you love someone who completes you.......

@roniroxas (10576)
Philippines
May 20, 2007 10:13pm CST
or a person who loves you completely? well love is really a bit complicated.... you meet someone who is a good person but he is married already, or you meet someone who is handsome but boastful, or you meet a kind hearted man but too busy with his career. well but not all the time. lucky are those who met their soulmates and the one who completes then and loves them completely at the same time. but if there is going to be a choice would you love someone to complete you or you better be love completely?
4 responses
• Indonesia
21 May 07
I would better be loved completely. I have a hard situation too with my bf, since we are come from different religion, our family against this. But I'm in love with him and he loves me too, so I hope our love will strengthen us to dealing with this difficult situation.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
22 May 07
you are really in a difficult situation, and it makes it more complicated that your parents are against it. well im 36 years old and i have four kids. if my kids one day will have a partner in a different religion is okay as long as they will love each other with all their hearts and will respect each other is more important than just tackling a situation such as different religion. we see a lot of same religion marriages but sometimes end up on parting their ways so that means religion is not the main issue when it comes to relationship it is compatibility and how strongly you love that person. goodluck. thnks for the response
• Indonesia
23 May 07
Yes.. I wish everybody could think like you..
• Philippines
30 May 07
follow your heart if you feel..=)
• Philippines
22 May 07
i would choose the one who will love me completely. coz i dnt have to pretend to become anyone or i dnt have to be anyone. i'll just be my self. coz if he really love me he will accept me for what i am
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
30 May 07
yes that is true, reading your response i remembered carpenters song LOve Me For What I Am.... and the chorus is: You’ve got to LOVE ME FOR WHAT I AM for simply being me. Don’t love me for what you intend or hope that I will be, And if you’re only using me to feed your fantasy, you’re really not in love, so let me go. I must free. thanks for the response
@huilee (1010)
• Singapore
21 May 07
I guess i would need the person to complete me... Having someone who loves u completely can be good and bad ya... But i guess the person who can complete u sounds and is a better idea, isnt it? For me, if the person loves me completely too, im lucky... But lets say, he loves me completely yet, he cannot complete my life... Isnt that sad... But having a partner who loves u and complete u, that sounds so much happier and luckier, right? Well, afterall, its just my point of view.. =)
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
22 May 07
yes explaining your point of view and seeing your point makes me realize that yes it is nice to have somebody who loves you completely and makes you complete. but it is ok if he just loves you completely. thanks for the response
@sallyxu126 (1185)
• China
21 May 07
I am not sure your meanings . but I think if love happened, no matter he /she is complets or not, she will keep this love. my boyfriend is with good look,( at least I think ),but he could not earn lots of money. he even earn less money than me. he is good at cooking, but when he do something,it is hard to do a right decision. when love happend, this is not a problem, I think.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
22 May 07
the discussion is about do you want someone that completes you, when he is with you there is nothing else you want more, because he makes you complete OR you want someone you loves you completely. who doesnt care what happened with your past or accepts you as what you are?