When Was The Last Time You Said Thank You To Your Spouse?

I try to thank him as much as possible! I love him and want him to know he is appreciated. Sometimes I mess up and take his help and usefulness for granted, but I really TRY to show him. He's a nice guy. I think I said thank you at dinner, for grilling the steaks we had.

everyday i always thank him for being a good husband to me. i always thank him for doing little things to me. we wive's should always thanks our husband to let them know that we really appreciate them.

In the hussle and bussle of everyday life, I have a tendency to take my husband and his love for granted. I have in the past couple of days made a valiant effort to thank him and tell him how much I love and appreciate him. It goes a long way. The smile that comes across his face is priceless.

i do say thank you to him, sometimes i think i take him for granted, but i do try my best to appreciate everything he does for me, and even give him a kiss to show him.

I said thank you to my husband last May 21, 2007 coz he bought me a new samsung e720. :) but i always say thank you to him whenever i request something either small ones or big ones. :)

I try to thank my husband as often as possible. Especially now that he is going on deployment. I don't want to waste words right now. I always say thanks and I love you for all that you do. He does do a lot of things around here and I am going to miss him terribly when he is gone. I always believe that you attract more bees with honey than vinegar. It's true to. Being appreciative of a partners thoughtfulness and hard work is very important. There is nothing worse than feeling like your not wanted or appreciated.

About 10 minutes ago when he brought me a fresh cuppa joe just the way I like it. We don't take each other for granted. It could be worse, we could each still be with our ex, lol.

I always say "thank u" every time my husband did some favor i asked to him. In a very little thing he did for me and to our baby I never forget to say "thanks".

My husband just left today for a new job that will keep him gone for four days and he really didn't want to take the job but he did as the money is too good to pass up! He done it for the kids and I and I thanked him for that. I also try to thank him whenever he does housework as he works very hard and puts in very long days and I think that anything extra that he does is something to be thankful for. I also thank him often for being a great dad to the kids as he always does things for them and he is just a good dad and a great husband!!

I'm not in that kind of relationship so I can't really answer, but I want to say one thing and state one observation. People tend to be more polite and kinder to strangers than their own family, own relatives, friends, and flesh and blood. When you're walking into a store and a stranger holds open the door for you, you say "Thank you." But when your family member holds it open, or does something for you, usually you'll take it for granted. It's not exactly an answer to your question but it sort of ties in. Have you noticed this? These days, people, if AT ALL, are more polite with strangers than their own family.

Hi! well i most often say thank you to my husband, everything he did to me even a small thing i always saying thank you to him.. but the very most often word i say to him is i love you.. likewise he say to me.. my husband is not always with us because his working outside the country, so everytime we talk i make sure that i always give him thank for the sacrifice he is doing for us, every big/little thing he do is very much appreciated..

I agree with you terilee, we should always appreciate every little thing that our spouse does for us. I do thank my husband whenever he goes his way out just do to me a favor or an errand. Even if it's through text message only, I'd never forget to appreciate him.

Saying 'thank you' to my spouse seems quite formal...n i think it brings artificiality into our relation...that doesn't mean i dont appreciate my spouse...i always encourage her for the good things,not the formal way but hugs n kisses are very good n sweet means of expressing them...i mean y wud u thank a person so close to ur heart like the general way u use for general people

girl I have found that the way to make a man want to do more for you is complement him when he does do something. Then it becomes a cycle. I appreciate each and everything my man does. I love him.

I tell him thank you all the time. I should tell him how proud I am more often. Thanks for the reminder.

I tell my husband thank you all the time too. I think that it help our relationship. He also thanks me. Saying the words keeps your relationship fresh. It is letting them know you appreciate them plus it is not leaving anything to chance. Yah they know we love them but it is good to hear the words just the same. My husband and I have been together for twenty years and we have good communication between us. That is what I think keeps us together. The fact that we can talk about anything and I mean anything.

I'm like you too. My boyfriend spoils me. He cooks for me and he helps out a lot around the house. that's why I make sure to always thank him; that way he knows I appreciate what he does for me.

I tell my husband and everyone eles thank you any time that it is required to say it. But I understand that you are talking specifically about relationships and the little things that make each one work better. Many people forget those small things with the pressures of every day life and then forget even how important they are after a while. But they are important at least for a big number of people. SOMe people have trouble with this, they feel it's hard to praise, thank, recognize. MY husband for example has trouble vocalizing some things that he feels. But because I do it all the time, he is able to do it sometimes. People should remember that a relationship is like everything in life. It needs work. Maintenance like a car if it's easier to understand it this way. ANd that the small things really bring a very positive contribution.

my mom has taught me to say thanks everytime someone do something for us.so i say thank you everyday to my husband whenever i ask him to do something or if he do something to me.

Wow, after reading your post, I had to re-evaluate the way my hubby and I interact. I say thank you a lot; however, we've been together so long that I normally do it automatically without really thinking about the sentiment behind the words. Thanks for the reality check.