EveR feeL like You'Ve doNe NoThiNg?...

Philippines
May 21, 2007 10:54pm CST
i wonder, am i the only person who feel this way?... i really don't know when i started to realize that i have done nothing in my life... it's like though how hard you try to change [your life, daily routines, striving so hard to achieve your dreams, and etc.], still the path you take doesn't go the way you want it to be; your hardship just lead to nothing at all, and it feel so hopeless thinking you've done your best but still your best ain't enough... and just feel like you've done nothing...
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@muscare (3069)
• Australia
22 May 07
I have thought that over the past, but then I see my beautiful wife and son and think ' wow, what an achievement'. They think I'm the greatest person in the world, no matter what I have or haven't done. I also find a lot of times when I use to think that, I'd be comparing myself to really successful people, whom I often wonder if they have as beautiful a relationship with their family as I have with mine!
@joice86 (1079)
• Philippines
22 May 07
hi muscare...good to know that you are contented and happy with your life now. Sometimes, you can't really compare yourself to other people but then when you see yourself happy and contented then you realize that you are lucky to be have them all...
@muscare (3069)
• Australia
22 May 07
Thanks for that response. Now, I don't really compre myself to others, I am happy with who I am and what I've got.
• Philippines
22 May 07
Actually, we've been thinks the same. For almost 2 yrs of working, I feel so incomplete still. Because I dont know what path to take and what career to pursue. Im longing for the time when I can set my self for the good path that I need to take. As of now, I cannot say that I have achievements in my life. The same as yours, even I try to do and change my life with something new, still my way were not going on to success. Im asking that sometime,somehow I can see the best future towards my real wants & likes.
• Philippines
22 May 07
feeling of you've been left behind by time... wanting to catch up, but you're trap... trap by yesterdays, and all you need is time to mend yourself... coz you can't seem to think clear, and all you can feel is fear... fear of failing to complete work life before you leave this world... this is what i feel... but i think as long as we're alive there's nothing for us to surrender, though how hard it is we must fight for our selves and try to bring out the best of us... i know it is not easy, it is never been... me? i still keep on believing that there's still hope that my life the way i feel now would change to better and to the fullest good!!!
• Philippines
22 May 07
Yes, I do the same thing with you. And I hope we would find the right path for us to succeed.
@lingli_78 (12844)
• Australia
22 May 07
well, i felt like you as well before in the past but not anymore... because now i know at least i had trust in Jesus and dedicated my whole life for Him... and that is like a dream come true and i feel like i had achieved everything in this world... at least i know that i am worthy in His eyes and that is my best condolences and achievement in this life...
• Philippines
23 May 07
i'm happy for you... hopefully i'll find myself and whoever feel the same... hope we'll see our achievements someday just like you...
@aniez0906 (264)
• Indonesia
22 May 07
no.i think everything that i get into my life will give me available experience to my life after. if i was fell i will wake up, and i will find something that can make my life better
• Philippines
23 May 07
hopefully you'll never be like us...
@joice86 (1079)
• Philippines
22 May 07
I also feel that way especially when people let's me feel that way. Just like what happened with my thesis group, I know that I have contributed also, but when we had argument, they just told me that I did not contributed any. That they were the ones who just made our project. I feel very bad but I know in myself that I have done something...
• Philippines
23 May 07
i think the important is that you know in yourself you've done something...
• India
22 May 07
This shows your thrust for attaining new height always. If this feeling continues for long, you will be in high position and success in few years. This will force you to do something all the time. If you do any work with 100% accuracy, success is must. At initial stage there may be failures also due to lack of confidence and surroundings. Try to be always with such people who are of positive thinking. People having negative thinking will always force you towards backward. Try to avoid such people.
• Philippines
23 May 07
maybe you're right, coz sometimes i fail due to lack of confidence and my surroundings... people having negative thinking must be avoided is true!... thanks for the advice...
@JanMags (726)
• Philippines
22 May 07
I have often felt the same way. I have so many dreams and ambitions and I know that I have the talent and skills. Until now though, it doesn't seem like I've accomplished anything. In psychology though this may be interpreted as a stage that most of us really go through. If you are a young adult then you may be on this stage. Also, life really is tough. We really just have to live with the fact that not all of us will have great lives someday.
• Philippines
22 May 07
it is sad and happy knowing that i'm not the only one who feel this way... sad, because there are also people that suffer the way i do or more... happy, because knowing though how hard or tough life is this become the reason why people get more stronger than before...
@gigarange (1165)
• United States
22 May 07
I used to feel that way but I thought life is just like that, we have down moments and I'm thinking us being alive still means, there is still hope. Us, waking up in the morning is a great gift for those people that loves us. So, just think of it as a simple thing you've done and its priceless for those dear ones that loves you so. Life is great...we just have to wait a little longer sometimes. Cheer up!
• Philippines
22 May 07
yes, maybe you're right of just wait a little longer and think of simple things i've done... it helps somehow...thanks!
@healwell (1268)
• Ahmedabad, India
23 May 07
No I never felt so! I feel that we exist because we have some thing and so I never consider others too as MOTHING! PERHAPS IS IT DUE TO WHAT EVER COMES IN LIFE I HAVE ACCEPTED? OR IS IT RELATED WITH SOMETHINGINSIDE STUFF, WHICH ALWAYS LEADS ME FOR ALL KIND OF POSITIVITY OF LIFE AND SO I NEVER FELT MOTHING ABOUT ANY ONE? What ever it is but it has an impact on life with a grace and so i thank god ...
@chaime (1153)
• Philippines
22 May 07
oh yes, many times, so many times... There are times when I feel like I could have done something more and didn't do it, or what I did wasn't enough. You feel like you could have done something and because of mere laziness or ignorance nothing was done. Its harder when something happens because of our failure to do something.