What Truly Causes Me to Feel This Way...

@add_im (2712)
Philippines
May 23, 2007 12:23am CST
This past few days, I do feel some weakness in my body but I don't know exactly if it's the cause due to have my colds and scratchy throat. But even if I have them I dont feel so much weak in my body but when I lay down and think about my husband who's far away from me now, thinking about his situation of where he at right now, if he's doing okay and etc., that's when I feel so terrible in my body and I feel like I'm going to faint, the reason I don't know...I don't know what causes this when I get to think of him that's when my body starts getting so weak. Could this might be i'm thinking too much, or it's because of loneliness that's why it affects my health, or maybe their are some other symptoms that caused my body weaknesses except for my colds and scratchy throat? I need your opinions my dear mylotters friends and advices what to do about this matter of mine. Thanks a lot all of you.
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
23 May 07
Well being sick does not help and yes worry can cause this actually You need to stop thinking about it so much Sweetie and you need to stay positive I know what it is like honest I do
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
24 May 07
Thank you gabs for your kind words, yeah I should be always just stay positive in any ways that I know that it would be better for me to do so. Honestly, I don't really want to be this way all the time, and I know I should occupy my time with some other things in order for me not to think too much of anything. Thanks gabs.
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
24 May 07
Sweetie I know it is hard so do not beat yourself up about it You will get there believe me
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
25 May 07
Thanks gabs, yeah thanks for always reminding me and for all your concerns about my welfare here.
@gberlin (3836)
24 May 07
I think that it may be a combination of both your cold and your loneliness. Your cold may be taking longer to get over because you are so lonely for your husband. When I am feeling lonely I like to pray to God. That reminds me that I am never really alone.
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
25 May 07
Thank you gberlin for sharing. You are right, being in God's presence would really give me assurance that I will never be lonely because He's with me. God is always my comforter and the One that I count on to every moment of my life, specially during this tough time that i'm recently facing in my life. I believe, God will make a way for me from all this pain and loneliness that i'm feeling now. Thanks again gberlin.
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@derek_a (10902)
23 May 07
If you are feeling like this, I think you need to visit your doctor to see if there is something wrong (like a virus/cold) that he can give you something for. It could be that you are in a state of stress missing your husband and the recent loss of your puppy. If this is the case, don't block these feelings but stay in touch with them and allow yourself to get upset if necessary. Crying is not wrong, but a good release from these anxieties we may not fully understand. Staying in touch with the feelings is a good way to understand them better. But please do go to your doctor and ask him what he thinks it is as colds and 'flu can cause feelings of depression too.
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
23 May 07
Thanks for sharing derek. Yeah, maybe you are right because this few days I've been in so much stress thinking about just anything, specially now that my husband isn't here with me that I could talked to and the loss of my puppy recently...all this things really makes me tired to think about and truly makes me depressed. But I know I can get through this with the help of the Lord, and yeah if this feeling of mine continue to be this way, then my option is to just go for a check and see what caused it. Thanks again derek.
• Australia
23 May 07
Hello add_im Maybe that because your cold. Drink Vitamin C and have a long rest or sleep. Keep your body warm, and eat more. I hope you will get well soon *angel www.beautycosmetictips.com
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
23 May 07
Hello Angel, thanks for your advice and suggestion for me to take some vitamins. Yeah, I guess I needed it to gain my strength back in track. Thank you!