Do you like or hate backstabbing someone?

Philippines
May 23, 2007 6:36am CST
I personally do not like it especially when the person is not doing anything bad but if I am just sharing my view of that person with another person then that's really different from backstabbing isn't it? How about you? do you backstab?
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7 responses
• United States
23 May 07
No way. I would rather tell someone personally if I have a problem with them instead of going behind their back. I wouldn't want someone backstabbing me so I won't backstab anyone else
• Philippines
23 May 07
yes...really right..
@jarves (814)
• Philippines
23 May 07
I don't really know if sharing my view of a particular person is backstabbing or not. But I often do it. If someone out there would say that this is backstabbing and this is wrong then I would be very glad to accept that since backstabbing is really a bad thing to do.
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• Philippines
23 May 07
i don't think it's backstabbing already...i think it's more of talking why he/she is like that
@balasri (26537)
• India
6 Jan 08
I am an Arien.A ram that always believes in face to face in all the situations.I am very open.I never hide my feelings.So no back stabbing for me.If I want to stab it is always right in the center of heart.lol
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@shobasvk (787)
• Malaysia
23 May 07
Yes,you are right.If that person never do any wrong,then i won't backstabbing and i hate backstabbing too.But sharing my view about a person to my friends are totally different.When a person did something wrong or everybody knows that his/her attitude isn't good,the we can't avoid talking about that person with our friends right?? But one thing backstabbing is different that you talk bad about a person because of jealousy or envy of him/her.I don't respect people who backstabbing me or others.
• Philippines
23 May 07
yes..me too..i think they just lack attention or they draw their enjoyment from backstabbing
• Philippines
23 May 07
i hate backstabbers. if i have a problem with someone or if i noticed that the person has an irritating attitude, i try to confront him and resolve the problem privately. backstabbers are unworthy of trust. i hate and will never be one
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• Philippines
23 May 07
yes you're right, i don't like them too
@Woodpigeon (3710)
• Ireland
23 May 07
I really try not to because I know how bad it feels to be on the receiving end of it. I also don't like to be around people who do it because I know they will do it to me as well. It is a personality trait, normally, not an isolated event as far as I can gather. I am an honest person to thepoint of bluntness and it gets me into trouble sometimes. I may come off as back stabbing, but unless someone has crossed me, which after a point no holds will be barred, it wold be as you describe, sharing an opinion either because I have been specifically asked or it is as a warning.
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• Philippines
23 May 07
i liked the way you said you don't like it because they will do it to you too..you're definitely right there. They could do it to you too since that person is fond of backstabbing.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
9 Jan 08
If there is any back to stab, then that back really deserves my stabbing and i go ahead and stab these kind of backs-there people who make life so pathetic to you that you cannt help stabbing them for their evil deeds. Yes lonely_f16,I stab bad people very had on their backs!