Is your life what you expected to be?

@Hydale (206)
China
May 23, 2007 8:04am CST
I think this topic is interesting to me,every person want a perfect life,but in reality,most of us can not realize our dreams,in my life,I never make a long-term aim,i just make a actual plan that i can achieve,by this way,i can find the energy to go forward.However in life,what's your aim?
1 response
@maryannemax (12170)
• Sweden
23 May 07
i am a dreamer and so, i dream so much about so many things. but i don't expect that all my dreams can come to reality. my life turned out into something i never expected to be. i first thought that i will marry in an early age with the boyfriend whom i loved for 8 years. but when it did not come true, i thought that the world was so cruel to me and that the fairy tale i thought will be was a nightmare to me. but then, i realized that things do happen for a reason. and now, i am inlove with a man who deserves my life and my love to him. we're inlove for more than a year now and the relationship is getting stronger everyday. and so, i am glad that things did not happen as i expected them to be before.
@Hydale (206)
• China
23 May 07
I understand your feeling wasn't come true and it is really cruel to you which didn't marry with your beloved before. But I think every person have the potential surround us,and we just need something to explode it,we have the famous adage in China: the failure is the mother of success,sometimes we face to frustration not bad,actually,it makes the energy to us.
@maryannemax (12170)
• Sweden
23 May 07
thanks hydale. and yup. i am glad that i did not end up with my ex boyfriend before. i might be having an unhappy life now. and i am glad that i found someone true to love now. someone who deserves all of my love for him. i am blessed looking back now that i did not marry my ex boyfriend before. you are right hydale. failure might be another door to success. thanks!