Is it love or just a game?? What should I do!!!

United States
May 25, 2007 2:18am CST
I just recently met a gentleman i dated online for awhile and talked to all the time too on the phone! After he was here he said he was in love and everything! Now that hes home he is acting differently... not calling no more I have to call him! He wont post our picture together and doesnt want me on cherry tap where i met him because he thinks I am watchin him or something! I cant even go check my account!!! I am thinking hes playing me now with someone else... so whats your opinion what should i do???? Is it love or a game????
6 responses
• United States
28 May 07
Hi there! First of all, I am really sorry that this happened to you. It's so sad of what people can do to each other. I've never dated online before, nevertheless, he shouldn't have done that to you. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect and kindness and he has not shown that to you. He does not deserve to be called a gentleman if he has done that to you. In my opinion, love comes out of commitment and obviously, he has not shown any commitment to you therefore that's not love at all. I hope you'll meet a true gentleman soon. Smile :)
• United States
29 May 07
thank you! I appreciate it! He has found out that its not working out and that i am moving on!
@Katali (63)
• United States
28 May 07
It isn't love. Is it an intentional game? Only he knows. Maybe he got scared once you met and the reality set in and he backed off. Regardless of what is on his mind or in his heart, he owes you the truth of why he changed once he got home. If he does not offer you the answers, he isn't the person you need to be with. He isn't being an adult about this, nor respectful. You mention "you can't even go check your account". You have a right to be on the site if you wish. I wish you the best in life and finding that someone special that won't leave you with doubts ~Katali
• United States
29 May 07
I agree I should beable to check my account and talk to my friends too!!! Thats why I told him it wasnt working out!!!
@rb200406 (1825)
• India
25 May 07
Yes he was playing with you.He was not serious & now i think he has gone bored with you.so he is avoiding you.Just ignore hime & concentrate on other things in your life.Get out of him as he does not deserve you.
• United States
25 May 07
Awhhhh thank you! I needed all the help i could get on this! I will dump him tommrow for I am tired of it all! :D there will be someone somewhere for me :D
@aprilsong (1886)
• China
25 May 07
Oh,dear,thing is as you said,i think he is nothing but a liar.So leave him as soon as possible.There are so many cheaters and liars online.Especially male cheaters and liars.We should consider twice before do something. And if he is that kind of person.I do think there is nothing to regret.On the contrary,i think it is a good thing to find this truth early.Be careful next time.
• United States
25 May 07
Thank you! Ya know what I think I will do that tommrow morning for I know there is someone out there somewhere!
@neon2000 (2761)
• Philippines
25 May 07
Yeah, I guess he's playing on you. Don't worry, if he is not meant for you there would be someone who will come along and be yours.
• United States
25 May 07
Your right!! :D thanks for the comment! I appreicate all the help i can get with this!!!
• United States
29 May 07
Oh Sweety I am so sorry he is doing this to you...I know how deeply u liked/loved him!! I dont wanna think that is what he is doing but I almost wonder if it is! I mean he was so nice and conciderate while he was visiting you and now all of a sudden this?? I am hopeing it is all just a scared thing...You know how men are!