My Friend Died...I feel so bad...

@pinks0da (328)
Philippines
May 26, 2007 1:00am CST
I feel so bad today. I just learned that a close friend of mine way back in high school and college died just last week due to vehicular accident. We haven't seen each other for 3 years now though we live in the same city. Our busy lives and family kept us both busy. I heard the news last week about this vehicular accident but I didn't know my friend her 3 years old daughter and her 7 mo. old child was in it. When I learned about it yesterday, I was so devastated and I cried. I never even had the chance to go to her wake. Her 7 mo. old baby was miraculously saved, she was able to put the baby inside a basket and let it flow in the river while she perhaps faded with the river's rapids and her 3 y.o. daughter. My heart breaks imagining how hard could that have been to her and to her 3 year old daughter who also did not survive...I thought maybe that is why I often thought of her these past few days....That was all about it... All the memories that we shared together came back to me, I miss her ... I will never see her again...:(..I'm sorry for this very sad post, I just want to let my emotions out.
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11 responses
26 May 07
i am sorry to hear this
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@marciascott (25557)
• United States
26 May 07
It is a Sad situation. But did give her children safe. Hopefully they will be brought up with a good family members.
• India
26 May 07
If i tell that, I am really very sorry and know how you are feeling, it would be nothing but an insult to your deep feeling towards your friend. No one can feel or share you feelings. Only one can try to understand it... And by the way you are feeling, it can be rightly said that, no matter what comes in between, close friends will be close. After reading your message even im feeling bad though i know none of you. And i can only imagine how terible you might be feeling... I can only say that you have to move on with life... And i also know that now for you it might be really really tough.... But you will have to... And thats the truth... This might seem a bit childish but now i can remember saying of my mum... "There are very few god people in heaven. Thats why God has to take some one from us..." What can i say more... Take care...
@pinks0da (328)
• Philippines
27 May 07
Thank you for understanding. Until now I keep on thinking about her. I am planning to visit her grave, maybe by then, i can let her know how much i missed her. Thank you again lion.
@maehan (1445)
• United States
26 May 07
I have lost of words. Please stay strong. Life is up and down. I am sorry and sad about your friend and kids. Please take care of yourself.
@pinks0da (328)
• Philippines
26 May 07
Knowing that you understand how I feel is enough. Thank you Maehan.
@pidok777 (31)
• Philippines
27 May 07
im very sorry that happens to your friend.
@jhartana (1087)
• Australia
27 May 07
I feel sorry for your loss. That was a tragic accident and it really breaks your heart. My condolences goes to your best friend's family. I know it's really tough for you to cope, however you gotta be strong and try to get move on with your everyday life. Hope things will get better. Cheers!
@jahvo6 (624)
• Peru
27 May 07
Sorry to lose a dear friend specially in that way, try to stay close to the ones she left behind and support them.
• United States
27 May 07
I am very sorry for your loss. It is a perfect reminder of why we need to be sure to make the most of every day and to ensure that our loved ones know just how we feel. I see my best friend only 1-2 times a year, but we talk all the time. I wish we were able to see each other more and after reading this,I think I will make plans for us to get together this week. Again, I am so sorry for the pain you are feeling, but I also want to thank you for reminding me how precious life is and how quickly it can be taken.
• India
26 May 07
I am very sorry to hear that...I know it is very disapointing to listen to smthing like this ...but my frnd this is life and one who came on this earth neads to leave it one day ...this is the bigest truth and we need to accept that...Just want to add one more thing...no need to say sorry for posting it and sharing ur feelings....we all are there with u in this heavy time...dont worry. Take care
• Canada
26 May 07
I'm so sorry to hear this. What a tragic tragic accident. However, she proved right till the end that she was thinking of her children first, and because of her actions, her seven month old will live on, and perhaps she will live on through the child. She sounds like an incredible lady. Grieve for your friend as you need to, and slowly learn to move on. The initial shock will wear off. Maybe pay a visit to her husband from time to time too. He will need to be incredibly strong now for his child. He will need help, and I hope he has a good support network around him at this time. You and your friend are in my thoughts and prayers.
@lingli_78 (12852)
• Australia
26 May 07
i'm sorry to hear the accident that happens to your friend... my deep condolences goes to you... please be strong because life must go on no matter what happens... i can't really say much to you... just take care of yourself and may God Bless you... a big hug to you...
@winterose (39932)
• Canada
26 May 07
Ah that is so sad, it is so hard to say goodbye, maybe one day you will get to see them again