Do u wish ur spouse to be virgin??

India
May 26, 2007 9:37am CST
Yeah thats my question...some may say that "i dont care bout it"..but is that really true??dont u feel its better if ur spouse is a virgin...may be somewhere in ur subconcious mind..comments plz...
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@teison2 (5924)
• Norway
26 May 07
I think this is a cultural thing. Where I am from people are usually not virgins when they marry - if they ever marry. I actually do not know one single person that was a virgin when they got married. So If I hooked up with someone that was a virgin until we married i would think it was a bit strange
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• India
26 May 07
well u c i didnt mean do u want to MARRY a virgin...wat i mean is do u want to be a partner of a non-virgin(with or without marriage)...plz revise ur views..anyway thanx for the reply
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@teison2 (5924)
• Norway
26 May 07
My answer would be the same. I have never been in a relationship with someone who was a virgin. i think most people around here loose their virginity around the age og 15. And most people have a lot of shorter relationships with people before they settle down
@teison2 (5924)
• Norway
26 May 07
Forgot: It really does not matter to me if a person I become involved with is a virgin or not.
• India
28 May 07
relationship is something pure and divine..its a bond that hold us together....the relationship betwen a husband and a wife is also full of wonders..loosing virginity definitely means my spouse had been someone elses which i wud never accept...i wud want my spouse to be a virgin..being virgin or not is not only provoked by culture,traditons but also of ones mentality...
@JanMags (726)
• Philippines
26 May 07
I don't want to be condemned for my opinion or to be seen as a moralist but to be honest, I do prefer to marry a virgin. I think there's just something special about a person who has held out for so long just to do it with the right person. Then again, there are also others who have lost their virginity before marriage because they simply feel there is nothing wrong with that. I suppose they are also entitled to their own preferences.
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@Galena (9124)
27 May 07
when my partner and I first started sleeping together, I was a virgin and he knew that. I never asked him if he was, because it wasn't an issue. I actually think he might have been, but what happened before is none of my business really. it's who he's with now that counts.
• India
27 May 07
u said him u r virgin n never asked if he was??
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@Galena (9124)
27 May 07
I told him I was because it took us a very long time to sleep together, and that was why it took me a long time to decide to. I never asked him, because it wasn't important. if he wanted to tell me, one way or the other, then he would.
@nvtellan (1907)
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
Honestly, before I got into a relationship, I've always wanted to be my future wife to be a virgin. Luckily, I fell in love and got married to a virgin.
• India
8 Jun 07
few get wat they really want..so u lucky man..goodluck!!
• United States
28 May 07
It doesn't matter much to me if my significant other was a virgin when we met. It would matter greatly if we hadn't slept together and she WAS a virgin before meeting me, but wasn't when we finally got in the sack. I'm more interested in if I can trust a woman than if she's been ridden more times than sea biscuit.
• India
28 May 07
lol...nice one
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@mememama (3077)
• United States
26 May 07
Back in the day, I actually preffered someone that wasn't a virgin, someone with experience. I don't want to be a teacher in the bedroom. My husband and I weren't virgins when we met, so obviously we weren't on our wedding night.
@carryli (876)
• China
26 May 07
This is a old topic,in China,many people like to called a man who care his wife is not virgin as virgin love knot.Though there are more and more men claimed that they do not care their spouse is not virgin,they still have a little grudges.I also care my spouse is not virgin.
@dixits (104)
• India
26 May 07
ya its ok if she is virgin then well and good it would be good to have .... with her i dont mind if she is not