Do you give less importance to your best friend when your lover is around?

India
May 26, 2007 10:45am CST
Most of the times my best friend complains about this...that i tend to give him less importance when my gil friend is with me... I have never done this purposely and feel bad when i get these complaints but i think it just happens naturally one tends to listen more to the person they love so the other person feels ignored... Why does this happen?Is it that we tend to give importance to only one person at a time...but if this was true then my girl friend would have complained about it definitely...but she never has such complaints...so is it that i really give less importance to my best friend..i dont know...has it happened to you also?
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@suthoo (22)
• India
26 May 07
well..in my case it is not the same...i give equal importance to my best friend when my girl friend uis around.... Well it is upto you to manage such stuff... If you are really mad about your girl friend that you become blind when she is with you.. I will just tell you to be calm and try to handle things properly...Well if it is your first love then i think it is natutral... For me it is third...hence i am so confident..hehe .. :-)
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@shak143 (1280)
• India
26 May 07
No i won't give more importance to my gal friend and not to my best friends and i don't wna't to mix both.Each individual has there importance who ever may be. Though you may have not done anything and still your friends are thinking that your giving them less importance it means they didn't understand you well and viceversa. It happens with many.But it completely depends on thme how they are going to sort it.
@stephcjh (32385)
• United States
26 May 07
My husband is my best friend. We spend alot of time together and it is hard to find time to separate it and spend time with other friends or family. I feel like I am ignored when we are around other people though because he tends to pay more attention to what is going on around him and forgets all about the one who should matter the most.