May 28, 2007 4:18am CST
It's unconditional. No one can dictate and pressure a baby to love and it's really flattering to have a baby who loves to be with you and loves you just the way you are. No matter how silly you are. They say that this kind of love is pure and I know first hand that it is. My baby is very attached to me, although she's very sociable and will smile at a stranger, she has a special smile and laugh for me. She can't sleep long knowing that I'm not at her side yet. She's satisfied just lounging around and playing with her toys when I'm there with her. Her Dad though, finds it hard to put her down as she will not allow him to do so. Maybe she feels that "Mommy has gone though enough labor pains so I won't give her a hard time". My baby loves it when I sing to her, that's our special bonding. What's your special bonding moment with your baby?
28 May 07
Ya you are right. The baby is more attached to its mother than to the father. If it doesnt find its mother around then thats it, the cry wont stop unless and until the mother doesnt takes it on her arms. That is really a special bonding between the mother and the kid. The reason i could say behind this is because, the mother shows more love and care and stays with the kids always and also there is a special bonding between the kid and the mother, which no one can seperate.