Is French Kissing Obscene ? / myLot

Philippines

May 28, 2007 9:20pm CST

French kissing is a form of a lips to lips kissing with a deviation whereby both the partners uses their tongue to enter each other mouth. Do you think this form of kissing obscene or just a form of an ordinary kissing ?

8 responses

shashank1986

@shashank1986 (625)

• India

29 May 07

well it may seem to be obscene wen u r a cultural or moral Guru...i think its just a way of expressing love just meant for ur spouse....if u have a blak eye glass on u'll see the world black...throw it off n u'll see it clean...

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@molusk (857)

• Philippines

31 May 07

So, no matter how we see it, obscene or not, it is still just a way of expressing our love for our partner in life.

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debarchana1987

@debarchana1987 (105)

• India

2 Jun 07

expressing love rests on some factors.. 1)situations 2)consequences 3)privacy 4)adjustments between the spouses.. its not that we all view the world with black eyes..but there r some restrictions in freedom also..if love is expresed by any partner violently at the same time non-voluntarily then definitley it will be obscene love is definitely is something very pure and divine but it cant be beyond all restirctions. when we live in a society we r to follow some social norms..its not an interpretation in our freedom by the moral gurus but some of our duties to perform.. so if love is expressed in proper place and time then fench kissing can never be obscene

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ratan3784

@ratan3784 (11)

• India

2 Jun 07

well said devarchana here lies the true essence of love which wud make love much more pure and divine.. we cant deny few social norms.. your point makes sense

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@debarchana1987 (105)

• India

2 Jun 07

french kissing between a spouse is a way of expressing love and i find nothing obscene in it. here lies the true essence of love..its their privacy and if it expressed privatly then it sud not be a problem.. if trust,respect and good adjustments exists betwen the sposes then nothing can be obscene.. but definitely unrestrained freedom sud never be appreciated..if love is expressed in wrong situation that wud definitely imply obscenity of french kissing. but i find nothing obscene in french kissing if both of them accept it voluntarily..

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@molusk (857)

• Philippines

3 Jun 07

In essence, the performance of french kissing would preclude obscenity where love in its truest forms between married couple exist and if done in the privacy of their domain and both of their own wanting

Sherry12

@Sherry12 (2472)

• United States

29 May 07

Well, I guess it depends on how well you like the person and what type of relationship you have. I enjoy kissing my husband like that, but I don't think I'd like it on a first date with someone.

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molusk

@molusk (857)

• Philippines

31 May 07

And I must say that on an individual level, we may not like it with somebody whom we just knew but will love to do it with our partner in life. Yes, me and my wife loves to do it now and then.

toe_ster

@toe_ster (770)

• United States

29 May 07

I don't think it is obscene unless done sloppily in front of a crowd. If others have to witness and actually see the tongues in action that is just too much. Also it is obscene if it is done to you unexpectedly by someone you do not like. But if done tastefully and in a private way, have at it.

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molusk

@molusk (857)

• Philippines

31 May 07

Therefore, the obscenity lies on the way it is done, not on the act itself. You have a point there, toe_ster. Thank you

rikki8

@rikki8 (392)

• Philippines

29 May 07

If the French call it a way of kissing, why should it be obsene. Surely enough the French culture has expanded well beyond most of other cultures. They of all people and culture, should be well informed as to what is or not obscene.

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molusk

@molusk (857)

• Philippines

31 May 07

Basing on the rich and highly regarded culture of the French people, it is not then for us to label as obscene their own kind of kissing. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this.

cecillecarmela

@cecillecarmela (3818)

• Philippines

31 May 07

depends on the situation... french kissing with someone you don't love is obscene for me.. that's just one way of expressing your love and i think it's normal :D

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@molusk (857)

• Philippines

31 May 07

cecillecarmela, I would think therefore that a simple kiss to a person you do not love will do but french kissing him will be obscene. But the act of french kissing you will gladly do to somebody you love as it is just a normal way of expressing your love. Well said, cacille and thanks for responding

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macubx

@macubx (11414)

• Philippines

29 May 07

it depends on how the people see it.. if 3 out of 4 people say its obscence than it will not just an ordinary kissing from the publics perspective...

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molusk

@molusk (857)

• Philippines

31 May 07

Thus the perspective of the majority should prevail as to how they consider this type of kissing. Thank you

ratan3784

@ratan3784 (11)

• India

2 Jun 07

french kissing is not an obscene but it sud be in proper time and place..

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