How do you add a friend in mylot?

@Malfred (134)
Philippines
May 28, 2007 10:30pm CST
how do you pick your friends here in mylot? are you a selective kind of person, if ever someone add you as a friend do you check his profile? or do you pick friends and add them to your friend list like your parents, real friends, relatives, or you just add someone so they can see the notification if they response to you or make a new topic?
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@tmlnmr (1850)
• Canada
29 May 07
I will not decline anyone as a friend if they ask to be added. I have been adding people to my friends list when I respond to a new members discussion, but I do normally check the profile for age and location more than anything. Although I have checked profile first and forgot to add them as a friend afterwards but they always seem to find their way back to me. LOL
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@Malfred (134)
• Philippines
29 May 07
i think you're right checking the profile will do the trick. even i do the same to someone i add to, normally we used to seek friends in usual way but if i don't see some detail about himself well i think twice adding someone to my friend list.
@tmlnmr (1850)
• Canada
29 May 07
yes I have been trying to add only the ones that are at least 20 years old but I know there are younger ones in my friends list. I like to consider the age of the poster before I respond to them.
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• United States
29 May 07
I'm not fond of requesting friends since the first time I did it I think was denied. :( So I just accept the folks that add me. And I just accept them, usually they're people whose topics I reply in, so they if add and I accept without looking at profiles. I don't see the point of checking profiles anyway, no harm in having a lot friends! :)
@Malfred (134)
• Philippines
29 May 07
i also like a lot of friend been seen in my profile. but there's a lot of people here in mylot. and im not quite sure that they are all nice to you.
• United States
29 May 07
I guess that's true, there's thorns in every flower after all. Thankfully all my flowers have been thornless though! Hehe. =)
@brothertuck (1257)
• United States
29 May 07
I have 2 ways I pick to add friends. 1st is when I see a post on a topic that is extremely interesting to me. 2nd is when someone invites me. Ok maybe not quite that easy, I look at their profile and some of their posts and try to find why they invited me. I will see if they have made posts that are radically opposed to my beliefs or have similar ideals. From there I usually accept but it's not 100%.
@Malfred (134)
• Philippines
29 May 07
well you suppose to be right..but i do believe that we are all friends here in mylot. and it doesn't occur to me how they response to my topic or not. what matters most to me is were connected to each other for we find something to discuss here