What would yo do when your ex wants to gain you back?

@maean_19 (4662)
Philippines
May 29, 2007 1:43am CST
Your ex has a gf, and u also have a bf for more than two years and going strong. Your ex made his gf pregnant, but his gf's family doesn't like him due to a high profile family. Your ex was once your best ever boyfriend. And you were his first true love. You were good friends when you fell apart. Because of his gf's family, they will not create their family of their own. Now, ur ex tells these stories to you. Then, what if he wants you back in his life? What would you do?
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11 responses
@lucky_witch (2711)
• Philippines
29 May 07
In case like this I would focus on my present relationship. If Im having a good relationship with my bf for two years then why bother if my ex want me back. I have my own life now... no matter if my ex bf is the best bf I ever had...the point is things didnt work out to us before... and I dont like the idea that he will be coming back to me because he's gf's family refuse him. He should be focusing on how to prove to her family that he's worthy of his gf...and not to look for someone who will replace his gf... after all hes going to be a father.
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@maean_19 (4662)
• Philippines
31 May 07
Thank you
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• Saudi Arabia
31 May 07
I love your response to this and thank you very much...
@huilee (1010)
• Singapore
30 May 07
Definately not... I mean i have a bf too... N we are all in the past... No point telling me all these and wanting to get back to me... It doesnt works tt way... Yesh, i was stupid once.. But not twice... I couldnt stand such things... It jus makes me mad... N we couldnt work out once, why force things to happened again... If i have my bf now, tt will be enough.. I dun need ppl to ruined my life... Sorry, getting agitated as im speaking from experience... =)
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@jogie_bien (1103)
• Philippines
29 May 07
i dont accept it anymore, for me past is already forgotten in my life.
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• Philippines
15 Jun 07
Go for it and see what will happen. lol. kidding aside, ignore him. Stay as friends but not as lovers. I know, you are very happy now to your new love.
@butterfly39 (3907)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
I don't think he's trying to gain me back, maybe he just want someone to lean on. Get some advice and maybe ask for some favors i think. I'm pretty sure he loves his pregnant girlfriend. And I think it's not good to talk with him cause I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. Time for both of us to move on.
@fly_shay (333)
• Philippines
10 Jun 07
I have to tell him honestly that i'm still in a relationship and we're pretty much in love that he has no space anymore.lol
• Philippines
10 Jun 07
It happened to me several times but I end up rejecting it because my heart seems to want it no more.
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
9 Jun 07
going back with him is possible ,of course, but you two must think before acting. He must solve his future kid's issue and take responsability for him. Then he must end up his relationship with the gf, as you must end up the one with your current partner. Once that is done...why not.
• Philippines
31 May 07
he is too complicated. if i were you i wouldn't ever think of getting romantically link to that person. enjoy life.
• Philippines
31 May 07
Every decision you make has certain consequences you must face. No matter how many people advice you on what you should do, it still depends on what you feel and how you feel. Your decisions may be against other people's advices or views. But what the heck! This is your life, you control what will make you happy, not them.. Feel free to decide on what you really think is best for you... Go Girl!!!
• Canada
30 May 07
There is a reason why an ex-partner becomes an ex-partner. My partner and I are both very happy together, and nothing will ever change that. We won't let anyone come between us. Our exes are our exes, and that's final.