how you can forget someone you don't really wanna forget?

@anne0418 (268)
Philippines
May 29, 2007 11:44am CST
Could you help me answer this question guys...its all about my ex.We've been through for 9 months now,but i still think about him.I miss the times we're together.Ican tell tell to my friends that i already overcome the pain but deep inside me it wasn't.I wanna forget him so that i can start to regain my life and to move on,but everytime i think of forgetting him it really hurts me inside.A part of my heart tells not to forget him but a part of me tells that i really need to move on. I dont know if i still love him,help me,how can i forget him when all i see is all about him...
1 response
• United States
29 May 07
I don't want this to sound mean and its not intended that way but there is a reason that the relationship is no longer together, something wasn't working the way it was supposed to. Its hard to get over someone once a relationship has ended but the best thing to do for yourself is move on, you need to find somene else to give your attention to, even if it is just casual flirting with a cashier somewhere. You deserve better than being in pain over something that ended nearly a year ago, do you think he is sitting around miserable like you, I bet he isn't I expect he has moved on, gone on some dates and you should do the same.