There are three kind of people in this world ? In which category do you fall ?
By skbadhan
@skbadhan (879)
India
May 30, 2007 10:12pm CST
There rae three kinds of people in this world...
1. People who make things happen.
2. people who watch things happen.
3. people Who just wonder what happened.
In first category people do whatever they say,they take postive action and finish the task.
second category people talk a lot but never do anything they just talk I will do this ,I can do this or others should do this or that.
Third category of persons nither now their capebilities nor thay think what thay can do for what they are here is this world. When a good thing happens they only wonder what had happen ? how is this possible ? It can't be possible...
friends I belong to first category of people as what i think what I say..I work for that I know my capabilities and skill I never talk about which I can't do. I don't like to critisise others.
In which category do you place yourself and why please share your views..
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22 responses
@rb200406 (1824)
• India
31 May 07
Most of the people will say that they belong to the first category even if they don't because it is the one which i ideal.actually many persons belong to different categories.Sometimes people tend to say a lot rather than doing it but it is not that they don't do anything.Yes some ae always there saying & not doing anything.I think i belong to first category really.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
31 May 07
however a good family man and a good mother will always work it out to belong to the first category. it is impossible to carry through a family well and good if we shall just sit it out. i always say that life is a matter of attitude. this time, we must have a positive attitude in life for so many is dependent upon us. we might not realize it, but what we do will also influence the way the economy of our country goes. if all of the citizenry strives to belong to hte first category, much of our troubles will be shed away. so, let's do it...let us all do something in order to fall under the first category and make a difference. we have the will power to be able to win this one.
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@oasis_9 (831)
• Philippines
31 May 07
I'd like to be the 1st person... and i most cases i think i am a person that really makes things happen but there are cases that its better just to watch or to wait for something to happen than taking the lead and cause a bigger problem than what you face...
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@sunita64 (6469)
• India
31 May 07
I belong to the first category and I am often described as a showoff, as whatever task I do without being asked to do is criticised by the other two categories but that never dampens my spirit. In fact all negative comments give me fuel to work for the next task.
@sumofalltears (3988)
• United States
31 May 07
In all honesty I have to say that there are times when I can be in any of those categories. I don't think it is possible to be in just one all the time. There are times when I make the decisions and take the actions but then there are tims when I sit back and let someone else handle something to see if they are capable of making the decisions and taking action, and then there are times when I wonder what happened, because I was not present for what transpored.
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@rakhii (1302)
• India
31 May 07
I would say I belong to all the three categories in different situations. In many situations, I can make things happen, in some....i watch things happen, while in some other I wonder what happened. Coz i know I have been through all these situations.....
When I had to get good marks, I knew how to do that....i was in 1st category.
When I lost the friendship of a very close frn of mine, i just watched things happening and it happened. I didnt get to know how to stop all that happening.......dat falls me in 2nd category.
When I got so many friends in my life, I wonder what made me so many friends......so that falls me in 3rd category.
There are many such situations which leads you to diff categories.......
@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
31 May 07
I am between a one and a two. right now leaning toward the one. I get discouraged sometimes, when things like downloads do not work, and I cannot do the work as rapidly as I want to get the results I want. I tell people that I can think of things much faster than I can implement them.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
31 May 07
in this case, i must belong to the first category. if i fall within the other two, my family will fall under such a pitiful condition. i am a person who acts to not only to remedy situations but to cause a good situation and condition to take place. i work hard for the betterment of our present life, our present status in life. be it financially, morally or spiritually. i had worked so hard all these years for the benefit of the ones i love so much, my family.
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@wifeofharvey (1156)
• United States
31 May 07
I too am a combination of the three types.
I know how to think through, go after and get what I want or want done. But more often in society I just sit back and observe, and slide into that wonder of how in the world did that happen.
My energy is limited, as are my other resources, so I am more careful to pick out what is truly important to me and work on it.
@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
31 May 07
As for me , I am a combination of all the three categories mentioned by you in your posting. I can make things work ; I quite often watch what exactly is happening around; at times I also wonder how strange and inexplicable things are .
@subathra (3519)
• India
31 May 07
I think i fall under first category but only with 75% as sometimes the task which requires completion get held up either due to my errors or due to any others.Never i talk about anything which is impossible as i have seen people simply saying something and dont even make efforts to proceed.
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@curvychick77 (1084)
• United States
31 May 07
I'm pretty much a person who makes things happen, even if they take time to make happen. I love to see others happy and I very much enjoy making people happy. If I can make something special happen for someone, then I'm happy.
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@happymom1 (1179)
• United States
1 Jun 07
I am a type of person that i will make things to happen even it is hard and it takes time. I dont like not to finish and i am a kind of a little bit of perfection type just a little bit. My husband is also that way. He is more perfectionist than i do. We contradict sometimes but it will finish anyway. I am choleric - melancholy type of person. The one that is just wondering what happened is a type of person that is phlegmatic meaning a thinker and the other one is sanguine meaning lots of talking never doing things.
@angelclaire (2)
• Japan
31 May 07
the combination of the 3. coz sometimes you cannot make all things happen... even if you try. :D
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@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
1 Jun 07
I would have to say that I would fall more in the category of watching things happen. I do that more often than the other two categories though I have been a little bit of all three. I am a very shy person in public and tend to watch what other people do or say. People who make things happen are more likely to achieve their lifetime goals than someone that watches things happen. I know that I need to be more aggressive and try and make things happen if I want to get further in life.
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
1 Jun 07
I am a mixture, depending on the circumstances and situation. Mostly a 1, a person who makes things happen, a leader.
@wenfri (1185)
• Canada
31 May 07
Guess that would park in all the catogories as well
Although I would like to think I am in the first one most of the time. Hard at times though to stay there though
All I need to hear is that I can't do something then watch me LOL
Sounds crazy but it it true
Perhaps being an Aries helps too
Wendy
@kitkat1 (1227)
• Canada
1 Jun 07
I fall into the first category as well. I make things happen. I always believed if it is to be it is up to me. If you sit around waiting for something just to fall into your lap that is how u will die sitting there waiting. I never profess to be able to do something i cant and i dont critisize others who are doing something that i am not.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
31 May 07
I am a person that makes things happen. I figure whatever I try I don't have anything to lose so I just get at it. I love new advertures and find something good in whatever I accomplish even if it's not a total success. But one draw back it that since you are a doer, you get asked to "do" alot of things. I have finally found that place inside myself that I can say "no" to alot of things so I can procede with the projects that are important to me.
