Friend vs boyfriend?
5 Jun 07
for me...i will try to overcome this by the best way to tell her the truth which part we are not match but in positive way not to hurt her... if can ... i will tell her with lover i like... cause love and dating cant be start easy must be same thinking if not will heart broken easy in the future.. If just because she is my best friend i accept her will make her more sad in the future... beter tell the truth..that the best way.. really sorry to say that
4 Jun 07
I have met such situation for times.At the beginning,I don't know how to deal with it.He just is my friend and I never consider him as my boyfriend.I never have such feel.My first solution is to explain my thought to him and reject him tactfully.But it seems not to be effective.He doesn't understand at all and insists on expressing his love to me.And then I have to carry out some rude ways,such as lie,abuse,insult myself and don't pay attention to him any more.Of course,it has hurt him,but I also won't.What I did also against my will.Because of this,I have lose a good friend. And the others same matters,I'm patient enough to explain my reasons to them and hope they can understand,because I don't want to lose more friends.
5 Jun 07
for me, actualy is finding a right time to overcome this case... becouse i still busy with the study.. i dont hope that dating all this thing disturb with me... well, i will try to descrease the way to reject it by the way be the best friend as usual.. if cant handle this problem seriusly ..then we will hard face each other in other days... But time prove everything... just run all this thing as original...
5 Jun 07
erm... i m not trying to skip this case.. just waiting the chances to overcome this... becouse what ever you say will hurt somone.. beter i find the right time to tell them.. becouse we are best friend ...even we cant be couple but still have to usual like before that is the best way so far... i also a bc guy here for study so datinf i put after i gradute ...
• United States
4 Jun 07
Be gentle with this person. he has just confessed his innermost feelings for you and even if you don't feel the same, you must consider his feelings and love for you. Be kind and explain that you love him as a friend and/or brother, you consider him to be like a family member, but not as a boyfriend or someone you want to date. Take care to make sure he isn't hurt too much.