Cremation or burial?
• United States
12 Sep 07
i have not worn a suit and tie..or even a sports coat in a long time. my wife is not very happy the way i dress as I dress so poorly..if i was to die tonight i would have to have one of those suits the undertaker has...a clip on tie..lol..and those clothes were there is no back to it...lol...well, i would not need shoes as no one would see my feet anyway in the coffin...but my brother was cremated and they still dressed him up and put his favoriate drink by the coffin...but I don't think they burned that bottle up? well, the ashes were split three ways for each of his kids...(all were adults) but I don't care what happens as long as my wife is satisfied with the arrangements...but if she goes first? i will just have her ashes to take back to the homeland..the Philippines for her..as she wants to be buried with her loved ones...
4 Jun 07
I really do not know. I have thought long and hard about this actually, but i have not reached a conclusion. Here where I live it has been most common to be burried. Now more and more are cremated. I see no pros with any of these acts - only cons. I really have no idea right now. Maybe it will become more clear to me in time.