Do you tell secrets to your friends?

Philippines
June 4, 2007 5:04am CST
Sometimes I do tell secrets to them but I still know the limitations, If i think that those things that should not be tell then I will not tell them no matter what. How about you?
9 responses
@Nardz13 (5059)
• New Zealand
5 Jun 07
Hi there, Im going to say, Im exactly the same, secrets are not to be told, if someone confides in me, Ive got to respect them and keep there secret safe...
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
Same here, if someone tells their secret to me then I'll keep it as a sign of respect to them. If you want to win their trust then do it. Thanks for the response and goodluck!
@vonn1378 (706)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Well there are certain things that u need 2 share w/ somebody esp w/ our friends. Yap,I do share secrets with my friends but just like you not all of them. Because there are things that I keep in myself coz its better that way...
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Yes I think if my secret is complicated not to tell it with anyone else then i wont. I also set limitation when it comes to that. Thanks for the response and have a nice day ahead!
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
i only tell secrets to my friends whom i trust most. trust is very important in giving or sharing some of your personal secrets. you must be selective in choosing people whom you're sharing some of those secrets(whether confidential or not)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
yes I agree with you, You must tell secrets to the one you think is trustworthy. Thanks for sharing your opinion. Keep it up!
• United States
5 Jun 07
Yes. I do tell my friends "some" of my secrets but of course you have to choose to whom because not all of our friends are secret keepers.:D As for me, I only tell my secrets to my friends who has a memory gap. :D
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Thats good at least you have set your limitation in telling all your secrets. keep it up! Goodluck and god bless!
@dsuesue (180)
• China
5 Jun 07
Most of time, I don't, I don't mean to keep my secret, I just don't feel comfortable to let others know what I think. But I'm a good secret keeper to my friend, they belive me and tell me their secret.
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Thanks for the response, keep it up. Goodluck and God bless!
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
not anymore.. sad to say that days after i have told my secrets to friends, the next thing i know is that this "friends" had told to some other friends!
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Too bad to know that, Yes we cant deny it that there are some people who are inconsiderate on what they think would you feel if they tell your secrets to others. Thanks for the response and lets make friends!
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
Right, I also do have my limitations I don't tell everything to my friends I am not an open book even to my bestfriends but there are things that I do tell them and seek advices...
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Yes you must have limitations when telling secrets no matter who the person is. Thanks for your response anyways and goodluck to you also!
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
Hi kyutstudph! Just want to share my story. I have a girl bestfriend and we're getting three years as best friends. I love her so much and yes, I do tell my secrets, even my darkest secrets on her. But to tell you, I don't easily guve my trust on others. I just felt it when we first met that she would be one of my longtime friends. We have quarreled many times but she didn't tell my secrets to others. :D I guess it just depends on what kind of friend she is before you give your full trust on someone. Trust is very genuine and it should not be given easily to others, except if he's worth it. :D
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Nice story huh, Its just a proof that telling secrets depends upon the person's prerogative, doesnt matter if he/she is your friend or not if they like to tell it to others then they can. Its just a matter of trust. Thanks for the story and God bless!
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@dane20 (45)
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
It depends if your friend can trusted and if you have doubts that she is talkative better not tell your secrets to her coz im sure that she'll let other people know your own secret.
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Yes thats true if you feel like your friend can win your trust then tell it but if not dont dare to tell right. Thanks for your response and goodluck!