What has changed you the most?

United States
June 4, 2007 8:56am CST
What has changed you the most in your life? What has made you who you are today? Some people change the most when they get married. Some people change the most when they have children. Some people change after a traumatic event, or even a very happy event. What has changed you the most? For me it has been since I met and started dating my husband. My entire personality changed, my whole way of thinking changed, and my look on life changed. I grew up alot when I met him because he was older and more mature. How about you? What has changed you the most?
16 responses
@subha12 (18441)
• India
5 Jun 07
i have quite a few i can say.not a single one. last year it was a near fatal accident. i have got fully cured but still it hunts me. another most important is the way my friend cheated me. He was my best friend and we were so close. He also proposed me. but after that i came to know he was lying to me and was in love with other girl. when i shifted to another city, he stated completely avoiding me. I fel cheated
@kumarravi (145)
• India
5 Jun 07
I think the thing that has changed my life most is the situations that i have passed through in my life. In my view the only thing that will change that mostly is the situations and nothing more and little bit of the people that live around you
• India
5 Jun 07
There are so many things that can change life of any person. all the things depand on person to person. I think there is only one person that has changed my life strongly enough. She is my girlfriend. She has made a larg impact on me. Now she is too far to me and i m missing her badly. she alwyas inspired me to do somthing extra ordinary. Today I see what i am is just because of her
@petitpapa (194)
• China
5 Jun 07
when i grown up,i chaged most that my view of life and sense of worth and then these help to interpret life is the most important.
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Who has changed me the most. For me it is my fiance, who changed me a lot. Changed in a way that I am a better person now. He taught me a lot.. being more mature and more responsible... I'll always be thankful to God for giving him to me...
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
My mother is the one who always change me. She's a very big part of my life and I owe everything I have to her. She changed my perspective and I know that I look at things differently compared to the other adolescents in my age.
@4cuteboys (4099)
• United States
5 Jun 07
I think meeting my husband. he really changed me and who I was. I was really a loner when I met him, and now i'm very outgoing, I think it's because I am truly happy now and before I thought I was happy but really I was just sad alot. I was also very superficial about staying super skinny and all of that, now I relax and just enjoy our life and kids. it's much nicer to be like this. I owe him alot.
• United States
4 Jun 07
i think that when i got married i was the same person as i was when i met my husband but once i had my child i stopped hanging out with my friends but it stopped on both ends because we all have children now and we put our families first before anything else.
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
Maybe when i get married, i've changed a lot but a changed for good, im so childish then, so sensitive and immature, my husband is more mature than me and more understanding, and he always have a comment in almost everything that i do and i act, teaching like this and like that and so on and so forth, actually he act like my father... but i love him doing that at least i learned a lot from him and still learning.
4 Jun 07
Hi there, For me it was becomming a mum, Well you got to shape up dont you when kids are involed.
@maehan (1439)
• United States
4 Jun 07
After my Secondary School, I did not do well in my English. As a result I had to go to Technical Institute where people in Singapore had a saying that those went there "It The End". That's meant that you have no future. Initially I am very upset and lost of hope. When I started going to the institute, I am totally detest and reluctant to go there. My dad and the instructor there counsel me that not everybody will be a director or manager. Every profession are equally important even a cleaner. Moreover, the student there are not as bad as what other been critising about. They are nice, helpful and creative but the only thing is that they are playful. Everybody had a saying that student from Technical Institue are unable to get into degree and look down upon us. After I graduate from the institute, I step into the society and work as a Technician and continue my education as part-time. And, I had proven that those that look down upon us are wrong. Here I am, graduate with an 2nd Upper Honour Degree. Nobody is THE END, everybody can do it!
• Sri Lanka
4 Jun 07
everything in my life made me the person i am today... i've taken many of life's beatings and i hv learned a lot of lessons from that....
• India
4 Jun 07
Change is the law of nature. When I got married I changed my self. Adjusting to the new environment, new house, new people. But a supportive spouse helps u through thick & thin. A sea change came in me when I was blessed with two angels. I became very patient,loving,caring person. I love to cook new dishes for my babies. Being with kids u have to be like kids. The most important thing is kids come to know u'r feelings, & will respond according to it. If u'r sad they will try to please u. They become a part of u & u grow teaching them & learning from them.
@surveygrrl (1270)
• United States
4 Jun 07
Definitely having kids. I view people in general differently. I am more laid back, compassionate, understanding and life is more fun. I also value my parents more.
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
4 Jun 07
Gambling has really changed me a lot yea .... My friend who gang up together to con me while gambling had let me learn a lot about protecting myself yea ... always try to leave a door for yourself always no matter what yea
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
4 Jun 07
What changed me the most in my life.....wow...I would have to say meeting a wonderful woman, her hooking me up with her inmate brother, meeting my husband and remeeting a friend from the past all within a yr span......If it'd not been for them, I'd may never had seen my beauty and my worth, I'd not have started my healing from my past...if it'd not been for them I'd not have survived the first and second phases of that hellish road let alone made it through the next few yrs after that and all that came with it (not jsut in my healin but in my life overall)...I've been blessed to have some really wonderful ppl in my life that I am forever grateful for and love with all my heart and soul...