does your ex still call?
@helpmehelpyou (534)
Canada
June 4, 2007 7:43pm CST
i was married for sixteen years and all whatever broke loose. we still talk now and then. mostly about the kids and grandkids, but at least we still talk. we were both bitter at first about the way the divorce settlement went. i gave her lots, and she got nothing in return, bwo new boyfriend. a real loser.but thats a different subject altogether. what i want to know is do you still talk with an ex marriage partner or boyfriend or girlfriend. i do and it irks my woman every time it happens and believe me it isn't me calling her
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@brothertuck (1257)
• United States
5 Jun 07
My kids mother and I have been apart for almost 10 years. We have always put the kids above our own feelings. We realized that our differences would be there but both of us want the kids to get every chance at what they wanted and always will be there for them.
We have spent time together for the kids, not as lovers or anything just as 2 adults who care for the kids. We live over 600 miles apart, and when I had a chance to spend time there, she let me stay at their place so that I didn't have to put out a lot of money for a hotel and could spend and extra day or so with them.
Any who I have been with since know I have kids and know that I don't have any romantic feelings for my ex, and they have to accept my relationship with her as my kids mother.
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@helpmehelpyou (534)
• Canada
5 Jun 07
family is everything. we all do things which irritate eachother, those specific things that irritate no end and are brought up more often than not. seem to be the ones that gather more stones than most. like if you hadn't or if you didn't or maybe if she feels the least bit responsible for how the kids turned out. maybe for the better, maybe not
@helpmehelpyou (534)
• Canada
5 Jun 07
sorry, tuck, i just reread my comment and it doesn't even make sense to me. it sounds to me as though you and your (ex) have a very good understanding, where it comes to your kids. keep it up tuck, ol boy
