Girl or Boy: Who takes control in order to have a smooth flow relation?

Philippines
June 4, 2007 7:58pm CST
Is it the boy who takes control, handle everything? always do the understanding, in order to have a smooth relationship? Or does it the girl, who do the loving and caring in order to have a great realtionship?
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6 responses
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
the boy is still incharge to handle the relationship..but the girl must also help the boy carry the relationship...they must help each other to have a good relationship..the gurl must not be imature..also for the boy...having a relationship is like having a very big responsibility.not only to themselves but also to anybody.
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
I think both parties should be responsible. Relationship, especially the boyfriend and girlfriend relationship will only work if both parties worked for it. It was like where the strength of the other is the weakness of another...And that the weakness of other is the strength of another.. So each one will have responsiblity to each other.
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
i don't think that one should take control over the other. in a relationship, it is best when the couple always have a say. they should always agree to a decision which can make their relationship better. when one starts to control the relationship, the relationship will work more for that person. in the end, the partner may not like what is happening and the relationship will suffer and will not survive.
• United States
5 Jun 07
Actually prettyvanz it's up to both members to keep it smooth running. Having to depend on one person to do all the work to keep the love in the relationship and everything even-keeled puts too much stress on a single partner. That's when things get messy. You really need to think of a relationship as a partnership and keep the balance.
@lecanis (16664)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
5 Jun 07
I think that has more to do with the personalities of the people involved than their genders. I've been in relationships where things have worked well with me in control, and others where things have worked well with the other person in control. My current relationship with my husband doens't give either of us control, but rather involves decisions being made together based on our mutual goals and interests, and that works best of all for me. =)
@Coolgeth (1215)
• India
5 Jun 07
I think both of them should take part to maintain and suceed in smooth relationship.. If either one fails it will lead to an unsuccessfull relationship..