What will u do if u get attracted 2wards ur neighbour's wife aftr u got married

@whitish (1409)
India
October 23, 2006 1:00pm CST
Please respond
8 responses
@nickventere (1424)
• Zambia
11 Aug 07
I think most of all you have to ask yourelf why you got attracted to your neighbour's wife inthe first place, especially that you just got married. When you decide to get married, you are sending a message out that you have found what you have been looking for. Therefore, you have set your focus on your partner. Being human, you will fromtime to time admire other people, but you can maturedly brush aside such distraction from your relationship. You just have to re-focus on your marriage. Otherwise, you might have come into the wrong marriage, and have yourself to blame if the marriage was not an arranged one, as in some cultures!
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@bayboy (991)
• United States
23 Oct 06
Well.. yeah i think kinda? im not really sure..
@whitish (1409)
• India
27 Oct 06
Thanks for your response
@SnIcKasS (1378)
• Israel
23 Oct 06
You just have to decide what you want. risk everything for a moment of fun... or.. stay with your wife, for eternal loyality and fun. It's up to you and your personaliry then... :) But I personally think that you should forget about it, and hit yourself every time you think about her.
@whitish (1409)
• India
27 Oct 06
Thanks for your response
• United States
23 Oct 06
Do nothing, you are married now and you can not just go to another one. That call cheating. If you are just thinking you are atracted to your neighbor's wife, dont do anything stupid. Stay away.
@whitish (1409)
• India
27 Oct 06
Thanks for your response.i think u r a good person
@jbrooks0127 (2329)
• United States
9 Aug 07
Clearly if this happens the love for your wife was not there. Of course no matter how much you love a woman you will always find others attractive but what you do about it and how you feel about it makes all the difference. If you find the neighbor compelling right after you are married you have a real problem. You should never have married. You were not ready to settle down and enjoy your wife and the life you can have togeather.
• Saudi Arabia
21 Jul 07
Nothing!!!! If it is just plain simple attraction, then what's wrong? However, if it's lusting then something must be wrong. Worse is if you covet your neighbor's wife! I would assume you love your wife because you married her?
@tuffy999 (794)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
'thou shall not covet thy neighbor's wife'
@gambler (1108)
• India
28 Oct 06
i will...well i have no idea.