do you sorry when you hurt anybody?

@mymytri (2032)
India
June 5, 2007 7:28pm CST
what do you do when you hurt anybody by your words,gestures,feelings and realise after somdays that you did wrong and you wouldnt have to done this?do you apologise them?or just you keep yourself calm take it easy?or you try to debate that you are right at that time and in your position?
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
I always feel so sorry when i hurt anybody. I don't want to have enemies coz i would not feel comfortable of myself. I always apologize to the person i hurt everytime we had an argument especially when I and one of my siblings had a fight. I always approached them after and ask forgiveness,then all will be alright. I am not always a defensive person when i know that i am wrong,i would heartily accept my faults.
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@mymytri (2032)
• India
6 Jun 07
you are too sensitive vonne28th.hey nice to meet you once again.
@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
Yes i am..nice meeting you too! ;)
• United States
6 Jun 07
oh oh oh! I TOTALLY feel guilty when I hurt someones feelings. (I have never hurt someone physically!) But whenever I say anything hurtful towards someone (even if they deserved it and they were being mean back) I always feel so guilty. I'll go a full day just feeling guilty as sin! And if it's bad enough I'll feel guilty while I'm trying to sleep! It sucks but it's just who I am.
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@mymytri (2032)
• India
6 Jun 07
you are too sensitive deat.me too :)
@mymytri (2032)
• India
6 Jun 07
you are too sensitive dear.me too :)
@angela2006 (1846)
• China
6 Jun 07
if I hurt my best friends,anyhow,I will apologize first,then after we all calm down,we will have a good communication on who is right or wrong;if not my best friends,and I think it is not my fault,I will not apologize,just take it easy,I have my own principles.
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@mymytri (2032)
• India
6 Jun 07
alright :)
@lucky_witch (2713)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
Yes I do...sometimes we do things unintentionally...or during the times that we do that we haven't yet realize the effect to other people...and it happens that we hurt them... Also sometimes we're doing it in purpose... we was hurt and we want to hurt them back or if they hurt the people who are dear to us... whatever the reason maybe the botom line is we still hurt other people and we have to feel sorry about that.
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@mymytri (2032)
• India
6 Jun 07
yes.:)
@babostwick (2037)
• United States
6 Jun 07
I do after I calm down a bit. I generally try to apologize when I realize I'm in the wrong in the situations. That's just about what I do and that's it.
@mymytri (2032)
• India
6 Jun 07
ok :)
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
6 Jun 07
i will always go and say sorry, may be send him/her a card expressing my mind. i will not recline until i apologise. it hurts me more when i hurt others. but i do that, seldom though. i am human afterall.
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@charms88 (7546)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
Hello mymytri. Saying the words "I'm sorry" shouldn't be hard for anyone. It seems that I kept apologizing even for the slightest details. It just comes naturally for me. I'm not a confrontational bunny instead, I gently explained my point of views. There's no sense in prolonging a matter or leaving things unresolved. It won't make us feel better that way.
@lynboobsy11 (11347)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
It depends If I hurt someone acidentally of course I will say so. But If I hurt someone intentionally I mean the word to it. Coz I'm very careful of hurting someone and as much as possible I really don't want to hurt someone if it's not necessary, I have very long patience and If I hurt someone It means It is not my fault to hurt him.
• Australia
6 Jun 07
when i hurt somebody i can usually tell straight away and if i notice i will apologize straight away, but if i realize after some time i find it harder so i send them card or letter or txt msg or even an e-card... but i have having enemies even if they are in the wrong... though that is when it is really hard....
@mymytri (2032)
• India
6 Jun 07
oh!!ok :)
@chenee08 (591)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
i would say sorry coz i didn't mean a thing..
@mymytri (2032)
• India
6 Jun 07
great :)
@dane20 (45)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
I hurt somebody with my words even if its not intentional, i would definetely say sorry, coz i cannot sleep whenever i can offend somebody specially if i hurt my friends, saying sorry to somebody when you've done something wrong is a sign of respect to the person you offended.
@joimarquez (1840)
• United States
6 Jun 07
yes i always say sorry when i hurt somebody...