What would you do if your bf tells you he is in love with another girl?

Philippines
June 5, 2007 8:06pm CST
One time I accidentally found out that my bf has another gf through a friend whom he has confided (he didnt know he was talking to a friend who knows he is my bf. I told him how he had hurted me and he was very sorry about me getting hurt.. I tried to ask him about his other gf many times and he never disclosed her to me ... and he will never tell me anything about her ... he wont tell or give me hints about her and I felt he doesnt want to talk about her.. so I just went on with him but after I've learned about his other relationship he has not said "I love you" to me again.... but again I tell you he is still there he keeps on connecting to me.. I decided to stop connecting to him because I feel he just wants to talk to me when nobody is around.. i will see what will happen if I stop communicating with him.... if he connects with me then I'd be veryglad .. if not it's fine and life must go on...do you think this is the best move i should do?
3 responses
@maiax2k6 (535)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
i was in a similar situation in the past when i learned that my bf had another girl and that he was scheduling us for dates. aw, that hurts more than anything else it's an ego thing. i just didn't know if he was in love with the other one, but i read he wasn't so in love with me either, lest he should have stucked with me. i'm not a fighter so i broke up with him, much as it had hurt, as i learned i'm not a sharer of boyfriends too. you see i read between lines and sometimes i have the tendency to read too much. as for me, if you're in love with the woman or man for that matter, you wouldn't do anything to hurt that person, right. so it is just right if you have to move on into someone who you see is more loyal to you, more caring, respectful, and sensitive to how you feel. you're young and pretty, there's still a lot out there more worthy of your time and affection.
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
thanks for the comment... I have moved on actually... i realized he was not even worth to be a friend to me... coz if he is... he would have told me first hand that we can only be friends not after he has flirted and won my heart... I just hated him and told him bad harsh words and that's it... I have to do it to end my fooolishness huh... now im a happy person..and i met someone who is very sweet to me...very thoughtful... very generous... very caring... very kind... and what else can i ask for? i think I found Mr. Right... and just hope he wouldn't change... Help me pray... my dear friends!!
@mean_queen (1713)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 07
Girl, if I were you, I'd just leave him. You deserve better than that~! Why put up with a loser that only wants you and treats you like a toy? Well here's my personal story.. A few years back, my boyfriend told me that he didn't love me anymore and he loved another girl. Obviously, I was crushed. But even though I still loved him, I let him go. There's no use putting up with that kind of relationship. So a year after we broke up, we found a place in each other's hearts again and got back together.. It's been a year since we got back together again. And now we're really happy together. So if you guys are really meant to be together, love will find its way. But for now, I suggest you have nothing to do with that guy. Besides, you know he has a gf. How do you think his gf will feel about the both of you? Don't let him get away with having 2 gfs... Well, that's just my point of view.. In the end, it's still up to you.. Good luck~!
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
thnnks a lot for your advise..Will do that certainly... I will have more boyfriends ... hehehehehe you are right.. If you are wmeant for each other things will go well... and I'm happy to hear about your story huh... Congratulations!!!
@aj2006 (1536)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
girl, You are Beautiful and Be glad that it happened that early, I mean,It's more hurting if you are already husband and wife isn't it? so, Life must go on with you. God has a plan for you, he has somebony just for you and In his time you will meet the ONE who will is faithful and worthy of your love, so. SMILE and Be happy now..
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• Philippines
25 Sep 07
hello! it's ok im just curios about what your reactions will be... I am glad i am a free woman now.