my sister is in love with a married man!

Philippines
June 5, 2007 10:28pm CST
anybody to comment on this? I know this is a tough situation for her. But she can't help herself. I already told her that it is very pointless, it will bring nothing but heartache. It's like investing your feelings on nothing. But she didn't listen. I'm really concerned about her and worry what will happen if she won't listen to my advice.
3 responses
• India
6 Jun 07
This is common issue now a days. Within one year any relation break up and new one starts. This is continueous process. Where there is flirt in any relation, will end up soon. No stability will be there. Seems this is first relation of your sister. She should have chosen fresh one. Why she is developing relation with married man, I cannot understand. If she is also married then no problem. But suggest her to start such relation with fresh boy. married man can leave her after some time as he is leaving his present wife and coming close to your sister. Try to understand her with the help of your friends and family members not to go ahead in this relationship. This may end up soon. There is little chance of stability.
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• Philippines
7 Jun 07
the flinty thing is really the one that gets in my nerves . . not only she is interfering with the guy but she ruins my image as a sister . . people think we are the same thing
@marinarovi (1318)
• Argentina
6 Jun 07
It's just too bad for her. Those kind of men never leave their wives, he'll just make her suffer a lot. How about therapy? Will she listen to a professional? Someone should make her realise she deserves better!!!
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
oh well . . love really conquered her :) i tried to talk to her but she wouldn't listen and i hate the guy. I don't know him yet and we really didn't talk much so i can't trust him with my sister
• Argentina
7 Jun 07
great, I'm happy for you Teresa! You're the very first one I know that has a happy ending! I won't be so harsh on married guys from now on, I'll give them the benefit of the doubt! =)
• India
6 Jun 07
This is really very tricky situation but the only solution is to take her out from this relationship as there is no future and ahe cant ruin the other relationship unintentionally. Well i feel you should take her out from that place for some day and explain her feelings will take her nowhere but to depression.i hope my advice works and all the best..
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
i just have to open up my mind in this things . . i will do my best to support her.