Are you happy in your current relationship?

My Husband & Myself
United States
October 23, 2006 1:58pm CST
I am very happy in my relationship but I see so many couples that are miserable together. I would like to know how others here on mylot feel about thier relationship.
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@tarachand (3895)
• India
27 Oct 06
Yes, We have been married for 25 years, and thogh there have been ups and downs over the quarter century that we've been married (silver jubileee completed last July) we can't think of life without each other and make up very soon in case of quarrels
• United States
27 Oct 06
That is so wonderful and congratulations on those 25 years. Thank you for your comment
@tarachand (3895)
• India
27 Oct 06
Thanks! and it's always a pleasure to comment on Q's such as yours. Do keep it up I am gonna add you to my buddies list and then try and respond to you posts, time permitting. Wish you all the best!
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@kids91911 (4366)
• United States
27 Oct 06
Yes i am happy in my relationship. We may fight but I still love him truely
• United States
27 Oct 06
I think most of us fight from time to time even if its just a little one but as long as we are happy and love the ones we are with that is what matters. I am glad you are happy in your relationship and hope you are always that way. Thank you for your comment
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@kids91911 (4366)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I agree and thank you!!! I wish the best in your relationship!
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@tammytwo (4303)
• United States
27 Oct 06
This may not make much sense but I'm not sure. Some days it is OK. Some days, it is pure Hell. I love my husband but not sure how he feels about me. We don't discuss things and if I disagree with him he thinks I am just being a __tch.
• United States
27 Oct 06
I know exactly what you mean because I have been there. Sounds like you have communication problems and I hope you two can work through these things, maybe on one of the ok days you can find a way to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Best wishes to you. Thank you for your Comment
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@tammytwo (4303)
• United States
27 Oct 06
Thank you. We definitely have communication problems, we don't talk about anything serious at all because it turns into an argument.
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@ssh123 (31096)
• India
24 Oct 06
In India unlike elsewhere in the world, do not change the relationships like changing the shirt. One can get separated without going to court (many of them for fear of getting bad name do not go to court) but they do not. They believe in mutual loyalty, mutual trust and mututal understanding and with the objective of raising the family, enjoy the family life. There is lot of satisfaction in doing so. One in million may get divorced.
• United States
27 Oct 06
Thank you for your comment
@ssh123 (31096)
• India
27 Oct 06
You are welcome and thanks for your comment.
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@whitish (1409)
• India
23 Oct 06
yes i am completely satisfied
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• United States
23 Oct 06
I am glad you are happy in your relationship.. Thank you for your comment.
• Hyderabad, India
23 Oct 06
i m more satisfied with our realation
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@munmun (808)
• India
27 Oct 06
My relaionship only 3 years and we have lots of UPs & Down during this time , and also our relationship never goes that point for break and is going stronger day by day.
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• United States
27 Oct 06
I think we all have our ups and downs that is just a part of a relationship, its how we handle them that determines if our relationship gets stronger or not. I am glad that yours is getting stronger day by day, may it always do so. Thank you for your comment.
@asif700 (1270)
• Pakistan
27 Oct 06
yes
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• United States
27 Oct 06
Thank you for your comment
@sabrinam (1204)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I was married very young and it was a horrible five years that was four years too long, and like you had serious doubts and swore off marraige even. Then I met my fiance and from the very first day I knew he was different and he and I are still mad for each other four years later. I went from being in a destitute situation to building a house on a foundation of a beautiful future... life is good.
• United States
27 Oct 06
I told my husband when we first met that I didn't know if I would ever want to get married again but I finally healed enough with his love and patients to be able to do so again. I am glad the same is true for you and that you are so very happy now. Thank you for your comment
@LadyElektra (1079)
• Canada
27 Oct 06
extremely happy ty
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• United States
27 Oct 06
That is great.. Thanks for the comment
• United States
27 Oct 06
I'm also very happy in my relationshhip.
• United States
27 Oct 06
I am glad you are happy. Thank you for the comment
• United States
27 Oct 06
yes
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• United States
27 Oct 06
Thank you for your comment
@missybal (4492)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I am very happy in my marriage. I know what you mean though, not a lot of couples staying together anymore and the ones that do are for the wrong reasons.
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• United States
27 Oct 06
I am glad you are happy in your marriage. Thank you for your comment.
@indiandevil (2109)
• Rothesay, New Brunswick
27 Oct 06
I am also very happy with my boyfriend we have been together for nearly 4 years, hes a sweet heart
• United States
27 Oct 06
Glad to hear you are happy and that he is a sweetheart. Thank you for your comment.
@ladyheart25 (1816)
• Philippines
27 Oct 06
I am very happy and contented with my relationship now. He make it sure he have time for me and trust me a lot. I love him so much and we are planning to marry by next year. yipeeee=)
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• United States
27 Oct 06
Congratulation on your upcoming marriage and the happiness that you have found. Wishes you a long and happy marriage. Thank you for you comment.
@erielle (1281)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I am happy as ever. My husband is the best! We have the easiest relationship. We've been together for a couple of years and have never really had a fight.
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• United States
27 Oct 06
I think that is wonderful and I hope you always have that happiness in your relationship. I feel the same way about my husband..he is the most wonderful man I have ever known. Thank you for your comment
• United States
27 Oct 06
I am married and have been for almost seven years. My husband and I are very happy, but that is because we constantly put effort into our relationship. I think most people who are unhappy are putting the blame on their partner for their unhappiness when if they were happy with themselves things would not be so difficult for them.
• United States
27 Oct 06
I agree to a point with what you are saying.. I tell people that myself that others can't be happy with you if you are unhappy with yourself just as I think you can't truly love others unless you love yourself. Though this isn't always the casem, I have seen a person who was happy til they were put into a relationship where their partner made them mesirable. I do agree though it takes two in either case to make a relationship work. Thank you for your comment.
• United States
26 Oct 06
hey i jsut broke up with mine we were together for over a year i thought he was the one but i definatly thought wrong towards the end he became an alcholic and started using coke i had to get rid of him i thought he was the one but oh was i wrong
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• United States
27 Oct 06
I am sorry things went so wrong in your past relationship but from what you say you were better off with out him. Here is to you for doing what you had to do and may you find that right one and the happiness you deserve. Thank you for your comment
@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
24 Oct 06
my relationship is great wish u the best with yours
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• United States
27 Oct 06
Thanks for you comment and Wishing you the best as well.. may it always be as great as it is now.
• United States
24 Oct 06
yes iam we been together 5yrs
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• United States
27 Oct 06
Thank you for your comment. Congratz on your happiness and being together 5 years.
@ssleutz (146)
• United States
24 Oct 06
most of the time very happy.
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• United States
27 Oct 06
Thank you for the comment.. I am glad you are happy of the time.