being married

@Bettyann (2486)
United States
October 23, 2006 4:10pm CST
why do husbands get mad about any little thing
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@dad1444 (69)
• United States
23 Oct 06
in times of stress,its the best.
Dear Bettyann, It depinds on what you mean by Little Things! Some things are importsnt to men and not women. And vicversa. Is it the same thing all the time? Or lots of different things theat tick him off.?
@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
23 Oct 06
Hey thank you for your input. Ya its like he cooks and i don't like something he gets mad what am i supose to do.
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@Cindyh2k (308)
• United States
24 Oct 06
Maybe it has more to do with how you let him know that you don't like something. Does he already know that you don't like it and cooks it anyway? Or is it new things that he tries and you don't like it? And, how do you let him know that you don't like it?
• United States
24 Oct 06
Dear Bettyann, How old are you and your spouse? And how long are you married? Some people just cant take critisisum. ask,see what he say's. some times when a guy is trying to impress you on an speicial occsion,critisium can hurt more than usual. but you said its all the time ,so i would guis he just cant handle critisium. and maybe its just because it you,not a co-worker or some stranger.
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• United States
24 Oct 06
Does he work at all? If not, then he definently should be helping a lot around the house and should not get mad when you ask. If you are both working then he should be willing to share some of the household responsibility, have you sat down and talked to him about it? If not, do so and try to keep calm about it, don't be to accusing and see if you can get to the bottom of what's really bothering him.
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
24 Oct 06
Hey thanks for the advice no he don't work i am the only one that does! I have set down and talk to him it does no good he will not listen to me believe me i have tryed everything to get him to talk to me but he want!
• United States
25 Oct 06
Bettyann, Im sorry ,but it sounds like youv married a momas boy . as long as you do things for him,,he's not going to do any thing. Dont talk to him anymore,tell him get a job or go live with moma. set some standerds for your life together, \if he gets mad ,tell him thats the last time for that too. no more anger,and if he wont talk,send him back to moma.
@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
26 Oct 06
i know i have married a momas boy thank you for your advice i really love him but hes got to change but he don't want to
• United States
24 Oct 06
I don't know, my hubby is pretty easy going and laid back. What sort of little things are you talking about? That could make all the difference in it.
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
24 Oct 06
Any thing like i work all day and he sits home playing games or on here and all i ask him to do is dry clothes or something and he don't do it when i get home i have to do it my self and he gets mad because i ask him why.
@bhchy1 (6052)
• United States
24 Oct 06
Do you mean in general or at you? Mine gets mad at stuff he has no control over...but not at me..he's been around me long enough to know I am going to do what ever it is I am going to do..so he just shakes his head and walks away...lol
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
24 Oct 06
its not just at me but everytime something goes wrong its always my fault he says
@srhelmer (6934)
• Beaver Dam, Wisconsin
23 Oct 06
It's the opposite in my house. I'm usually pretty calm while she gets mad at every little thing. So, it really has more to do with personality than gender.
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• United States
23 Oct 06
maybe he's not satisfied in the relationship.
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• United States
24 Oct 06
I think this question can go either way. Sometimes I jump all over my husband for no reason, and vise versa. He will jump all over me for no reason sometimes.
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@mauldinmama (1503)
• United States
29 Oct 06
oh geez...... dont know....I have a husband like that ...real things that I think should be addressed he ignored but he will blow up over the dumbest of things...example my daughter wasnt feeling well Friday night and we had been seeing the commercials for misery (the horror movie) opps by mistake...I said we would watch it ....I forgot the world series was on...he came in got mad and went to bed! Geez!
@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
29 Oct 06
sounds like mine
• United States
25 Oct 06
lolololololo..