being married
By Bettyann
@Bettyann (2485)
United States
8 responses
@Cindyh2k (308)
• United States
24 Oct 06
Maybe it has more to do with how you let him know that you don't like something. Does he already know that you don't like it and cooks it anyway? Or is it new things that he tries and you don't like it? And, how do you let him know that you don't like it?
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@dad1444 (69)
• United States
24 Oct 06
Dear Bettyann,
How old are you and your spouse?
And how long are you married?
Some people just cant take critisisum.
ask,see what he say's.
some times when a guy is trying to impress you on an speicial occsion,critisium can hurt more than usual.
but you said its all the time ,so i would guis he just cant handle critisium.
and maybe its just because it you,not a co-worker or some stranger.
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@cuddlebug79705 (2003)
• United States
24 Oct 06
Does he work at all? If not, then he definently should be helping a lot around the house and should not get mad when you ask. If you are both working then he should be willing to share some of the household responsibility, have you sat down and talked to him about it? If not, do so and try to keep calm about it, don't be to accusing and see if you can get to the bottom of what's really bothering him.
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@dad1444 (69)
• United States
25 Oct 06
Bettyann,
Im sorry ,but it sounds like youv married a momas boy .
as long as you do things for him,,he's not going to do any thing.
Dont talk to him anymore,tell him get a job or go live with moma.
set some standerds for your life together,
\if he gets mad ,tell him thats the last time for that too.
no more anger,and if he wont talk,send him back to moma.
@tinaigalu (234)
• United States
23 Oct 06
maybe he's not satisfied in the relationship.
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@cuddlebug79705 (2003)
• United States
24 Oct 06
I don't know, my hubby is pretty easy going and laid back. What sort of little things are you talking about? That could make all the difference in it.
@trulysnuggable (422)
• United States
24 Oct 06
I think this question can go either way. Sometimes I jump all over my husband for no reason, and vise versa. He will jump all over me for no reason sometimes.
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@mauldinmama (1501)
• United States
29 Oct 06
oh geez...... dont know....I have a husband like that ...real things that I think should be addressed he ignored but he will blow up over the dumbest of things...example my daughter wasnt feeling well Friday night and we had been seeing the commercials for misery (the horror movie) opps by mistake...I said we would watch it ....I forgot the world series was on...he came in got mad and went to bed! Geez!