daddy's girl or mama's boy?

United States
June 8, 2007 12:58am CST
Is there more of a special bond between a dad and his little girl or a mom and her son. I love all my kids just the same but I feel a special bond between my son and I. That is my baby. My daughter's on the other hand are spoiled by my husband. My oldest daughter isn't even his and they hang out all the time. She gets what ever she wants from him too. Please mom's and dad's tell me your thoughts and what you think.
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@tina12679 (1126)
• United States
8 Jun 07
I have a mammas boy!!! LOL and Mommas girls. I am the one that they seem to hang on and get them their things. My son is my lover of them he gives hugs and kisses more then the girls do. and even though they seem to be more attached to me then their dad they are more into the neutal territory, where they are here and whoever is here with them is who they are here with. if that makes sense at all LOL
• United States
8 Jun 07
With my husband deployed right now my daughter is having such a hard time because when I would disipline her he would kind of like baby her and talk to her and she would behave just from the sound of her voice. My son on the other hand would always do the dicipline for my son and now he don't listen to me as much as my oldest.
• United States
10 Jun 07
Personally, I think that there is a special bond between fathers and daughters, and with mothers and sons. I know that I was a big daddys girl, my father and I used to do so much together when he was alive. I have been very lost since he passed away, we also shared the same birthday. I know that my son and I have a better relationship and spend time together more than my husband and son. When they are together they are like children, fighting over things or wrestling, and my husband always says that he is more of a mommas boy than a daddys boy.
• United States
11 Jun 07
That is what my husband tell me too. He says I baby my son too much but then he turns around and does the same thing for our two girls. So it goes both ways I guess.
@ackars (1942)
• India
8 Jun 07
I dont know if its true in everybody's case...In my home,I had a feeling that my mother loves me lot more than she does to my sister.My sister even now complaints to my mom that "you love your son more than me.Nobody is there to love me".But I think my father love us both equally even though he has beaten up my sister only on very few occassions where I have been got badly beaten up by him many more times...
• United States
8 Jun 07
My husband and I don't hit our kids we talk to them and put them in time out. So no matter who does it, it's the same punishment. I don't love my son more than my daughter's I love all my kids just the same it's just a different kind of bond that I have with my son than with my daughter's.
@shan_ab (377)
• India
8 Jun 07
I have read that there are some psychological reasons for special bondings between dad and daughter and mom and son Mr. Sigmond Freud had done some very extensive studies on this topic. You can search for his name in Wikipedia and you will get some study materials related to this..
• United States
8 Jun 07
Thanks for the info
• India
17 Sep 08
we limited our family with only one son. and he is our darling baby to both of us. when i spank at him he runs to his dad and when his dad spanks he comes sprinting to me. my mother had favouritism towards my siter, second brother and third brother among we five. which was highly disliked by me. soi thought instead of having more than one child and having partial feeling i better have only one child and give whatever i have to it. and i do so to my only son. whenter we love or spank it is only he. whether we feed him in a hotel or a restaurant it is only to him. so no more kids - no favourites, no partial felings. and i believe strongly. co s i had gone through it.