I love Kids

@Bettyann (2486)
United States
October 23, 2006 4:59pm CST
i want kids but i was told i couldn't have kids
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@Bennyb24 (48)
• United States
29 Oct 06
There is always adoption and foster care! There are millions of kids on this earth begging to be loved by someone. You don't have to give birth to be a great mommy.
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
29 Oct 06
thanks
• India
5 Nov 06
I agree too.
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@barchil (150)
• Morocco
7 Nov 06
i'm so sorry for hearinbg that but i think that this is a gift from god and when he wants you to have a baby you will have it don't care about that ok :)
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
thanks for your response
@amitavch3 (436)
• India
7 Nov 06
I love them
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
thanks for your response
• India
7 Nov 06
kids - cute little kids
sorry to hear thatu cant have kids.
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
thanks for your response
@karinna (235)
• United States
7 Nov 06
when i was 15 i was told i would never have kids, the doctors wanted to do a histerectomy. my mother told them no. i had the cysts on my stomach and ovaries as well as idometriouses. well 2 years ago i gave birth to a healthy baby girl and im waiting on results again to find out if im pregnant again. the doctores are not God and they cant tell you that you will or will not have kids. God will make that decision. every time isaw comercials with babys i would cry every time one of my sisters or brothers would have a child i would cry, i got toa point i was pretty hatefull because of this. but all in time just pray and let God decide. its hard waiting i waited a long time. i was 4 months pregnant befor i figured it out. good luck
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
thanks for your response
@Aali311 (6127)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Sorry about that. You can always keep trying who knows what the future holds and there are other options out there I'm sure your're well aware of.
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
thanks for your response
@magnel (2263)
• India
7 Nov 06
You should not be discouraged about the fact that you couldn't have kids... God has some good plans for you...
@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
thanks for your response
@jhannon (1410)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Awe sorry ot hear that.Are u going to adopt?
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
i don't know thanks for your response
• India
5 Nov 06
i really love kid
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
thanks for your response
@istanto (8572)
• Indonesia
5 Nov 06
Sorry to hear that, You can try adopted one..
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
thanks for your response
@chance00 (3333)
• United States
5 Nov 06
I hate to hear that,but there are great alternatives such as adoption or even helping at a childrens hospital.
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
thanks for your response
• Pakistan
5 Nov 06
just have faith on god and u will get what u want.sooner or later you will have lots of kids.
@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
thanks for your response
@hero123 (631)
• India
5 Nov 06
I love kids very much.I always use to stay withh my neighbour kids and my dog.I usually plays with them.
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
thanks for your response
@chansey (74)
• United States
5 Nov 06
I am sorry to hear that, and it's easy to say that there is always adoption, but I also understand the internal yearnings to have a natural-born child. But you're young still, and who knows what the next medical miracle will bring. I have a neighbor that was told that she could never have children. Finally accepting the fact, she and her husband decided to adopt a baby from China. They first adopted a baby girl, and when she was 3 years old, decided to adopt a baby boy from China. Surprisingly, 2 years later she found herself pregnant, and with extreme close medical care and bedrest, gave birth to a healthy baby boy... who is now turning 11. And each of her children, adopted and natural, are deeply loved and truly a "family." Remember, it is not the pregnancy or birth that makes a bonding family of love and enjoyment... that joy comes from the love that is already deep inside of your heart. Just try to keep a positive attitude and remember, that no one knows what lies around each corner of life... except God. And if it is His plan for you not to have children, then He has something bigger and better in store for you.
@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
thanks for your response
@angeliamj (633)
• United States
5 Nov 06
I was told that I would never get pregnant in 1993 because of a severe tubal infection. I was young, still in high school, but I was still devestated. Then about 6 months later in 1994, to my doctor and my shock, I was pregnant with a healthy baby boy. I don't know the details of why you were told you can't get pregnant, but never give up hope. As so many others have stated here, there are many wonderful children waiting out there for a loving caring home. Don't feel there's no hope, keep in mind where there's a will, there's a way. I may be a more fortunate soul, in that after being told no kids in my future, I've had not the 1, but 3 beautiful, healthy kids on my own. Best of luck to you!!
@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
thanks for your response
@JAMBUG (125)
• South Africa
5 Nov 06
Kids make your world go round, and your savings empty. They are a handfull and need time and attention. If you really think thats what you want why don't you adopt? There are so many neglected children, it's sad to know so many who have children don't want or abuse them, and those who will be loving parents can't have their own.
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
thanks for your response
• Philippines
5 Nov 06
I'm so sorry for you. But don't lose hope. My cousin was married for 11 years before she got pregnant with her first child. Now she has 3 children. My office mate was married for 9 years before she got pregnant, now she has 2 boys. Pray harder. But if ever you won't really get pregnant, try adopting. There are so many parentless children who needs love and care of parents. You will be saving one of them. Good luck to you.
@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
thanks for your response
@Lydia1901 (16354)
• United States
5 Nov 06
I think that's a terrible think any person can find out about themselves, not to be able to have children. I think every human being should have a chance to have kids. Have you thought of adoption?
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
7 Nov 06
yes i have thanks for your response
@Ksenia (427)
• Romania
5 Nov 06
I like kids , too..but I don't want to make tham now..later ;)
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
5 Nov 06
thanks for your response
• Singapore
5 Nov 06
I'm so so sorry to hear that. But dont worry, there's so many children out there looking for a nice and warm family, someone to love them and provide them with TLC, which I'm sure you have lots of. Spread your joy and love by adopting. Good Luck!
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@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
5 Nov 06
thanks for your response