family

I agree it is hard to keep going. I am now divorced, but was in the same situation. I think though that it is important that the adults make time for themselves...my x-wife and I never did that and the relationship just seemed to fizzle.

I suppose nobody ever said that having children was easy! It's a tiring old business and relationships can get strained. I think the answer is to make time for romance. Perhaps grandparents could look after the kids for an evening, night or an afternoon. We all need quality time together to ... well to do whatever we want! As much as we love our kids, parents need love as well.