Why do you like ur mate/lover?

@mymytri (2032)
India
June 9, 2007 8:11pm CST
and what do you like in them do you love because he/she is beautiful/handsome ,pretty,charming,..what i mean here is do u see and attract to outer apperance?or do you also observe his/her inner qualitires like caring, daring, friendly,honesty,love towards you.....?and one more interesting question :do you like to love and marry a person who is good looking and with above qualities without a good job/business?or you love and marry a normal person simply he/she is rich and have good job?
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7 responses
@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
10 Jun 07
My bf is my longtime crush and i never expected that he will court me after a long time. So,i didn't pass the opportunity,but it took 2 months before i accepted the proposal. I want to marry a person who will love me as me. Not for what i have or what i can give. Of course,he must have work,i believe that the relationship isn't work without any will to look for a job coz that is also important. Well,as long as he can live normally though isn't really rich or not too poor. He must have also good qualities like caring,responsible and family-oriented. I'm not looking for any physical appearance,as long as we understand and love each other.
@mymytri (2032)
• India
10 Jun 07
hi vonne28th.nice,yeah .goodluck for both of you and i wish you will have everlasting happienss for being together in future :)
@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
10 Jun 07
Thanks so much.
@Flight84 (3050)
• United States
10 Jun 07
I love my husband because he accepts me for being me. I'm not the easiest person to deal with. He accepts me with my bad temper and with my quirky personality. He makes me laugh and holds me when I cry. We've been together for almost 10 years and I couldn't imagine my life without him. We have so much fun when we are together. Michael is my best friend.
@mymytri (2032)
• India
10 Jun 07
hi.Flight84.uou are very lucky for getting an understanding husband
@Flight84 (3050)
• United States
10 Jun 07
Thanks.:) He's a special guy.
@012401 (200)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
Hi friend. I don't want to be hypocrites, really I attract those who have pretty face and good looking body. But above all inward beauty still my top priority. Nevertheless, it would be better if she has a good career.
@mymytri (2032)
• India
12 Jun 07
well.nice
@helenying (120)
• China
12 Jun 07
I cann't tell why I love my bf. Really I don't know the reason, just one kind of feeling. Being together, we both feel happy. Maybe this is the simple answer. I think many girls like marrying someone have a good looking and rich. There is no doubt I also hope to meet this someone. But this is not everything. I will chose a person have good inner qualities.
@mymytri (2032)
• India
12 Jun 07
ok :)
@hoghoney (3749)
• United States
12 Jun 07
I love my boyfriend because he is the best thing that has walked into my life in along time. He is funny, caring, and he has a beautiful heart and alot of charm. I call him the last of a rare breed. And most of the time he is the air I breath. Hugs!
@mymytri (2032)
• India
12 Jun 07
hey.nice.goodluck for u both
11 Jun 07
My husband is very mature in how outlook on life and people.He understands me so well,I could not have asked for more.I admire his patience and his quality of being non-judgemental however dire the situation.it really helps me and I love him for it.I am very sensitive by nature and the last thing I would want is my own husband pointing out my faults to me when I know that too well.For me good looks is one thing I don't care much about.I mean,I admire good lookling people,both men and women,I like beauty in any form but I am not totally enchanted or blinded by it.
@mymytri (2032)
• India
12 Jun 07
well.getting a person who points out our faults helps us to to develop.right.goodlluck for future and have great life to both of you
@kamran12 (5556)
• Pakistan
14 Jun 07
I love my wife because I didn't have a choice, mymytri! not because I couldn't find other girls but because I couldn't find any better than her. She comes from a very rich family and I am from middle class. She had much luxuries before marriage than what she has now but still she loves me for what I am. I couldn't provide her with as many facilities as she had deserved because I split my income to distribute among different people but she not only doesn't raise a finger but also appreciate me doing this. Though she has all the basic needs and requirements fulfilled but her life is tougher than it was before even then she likes it as it is. I love her because she cares for me even if it causes some physical pain to her and she doesn't tell me if I don't know myself. She is a wonderful lady much to be loved and cherished. A lovely human having a kind heart for everyone. She is also very intelligent and wise. I also love her because she is mother of my only son. I don't know if I love my son only because he is my son or because he is her son. I also love her because she is the most beautiful lady on the face of earth, much more beautiful than the celebrities. Everything about her is lovable, guess I can write a book about it, lol:-)