two tymer

Philippines
June 10, 2007 10:34pm CST
i enter to a relationship, and i know that guy has girlfren but they are long distance relationship, the guy love me and i love him too. Im guilty because i hurt the gilr.the girl doesn't know that her boyfren has another girl, so i decided to broke up with that guy, i love him but i should do it,, Is is my dicision right?
5 responses
@magica (3710)
• Bulgaria
11 Jun 07
Of course, you are guilty. But not too much.He is more guilty. Just think:he is not honest with his current girlfriend, do you believe that he will be honest with you? And what the distance mean actually? Just imagine that you must go anywhere far for some time. You are lonely there, you wait your bf`s letters, calls and your hope supports you. But...he is a liar. He writes to you and actually "loves" somebody else there what is near him. Oh...come on...leave this double-player!
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
well said magica. :)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
yes.. im so sorry for the girl.. i pitty the girl too.. cause she doesn't know what her bf is doing.. i dont have any news about them.. i hope that they are happy now.. i wish that the guy will never do the same again
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
hi! yes you did the right thing. you may never know if there is another woman other than you and his GF. If he is capable of doing that to his gf, much more he can do it to you.
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
hi sweetmae27.. tnx for your message.. yes your right.. he can also do it to me as well. i never think twice but to broke up with him.. and think that there are lots of guys there..hehehe
@huilee (1010)
• Singapore
11 Jun 07
I guess so.. I mean if the guy can do this to the girl, he can do it to u too right? I mean its really hard to say.... I guess by doing so, u are not only helping the girl, but also helping urself... I mean the girl is really innocent, we dunno how she might react upon hearing all this... But of coz theres no guarantee the guy wouldnt continue his acts to other girls... But i think its the guy losses... Not urs... Live life well and to the fullest...
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
hi huilee.. tnx for the concern.. yes ..i think he will do it me too.. cause he do it to his gf and the girl doesn't know anything.. well he might do it to me as well.. so i realized it.. and i broke up with him..
@pallidyne (858)
• United States
11 Jun 07
If the guy won't tell her that he's being with you, what's to stop him from getting a third girl, and not telling you? If you are looking for anything other than a roll in the sack, let the guy go, and forget about him. As the song says in South Pacific, "Wash that man right outa your hair!"
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
yeah.. thats wy i broke with him.. one day i realized it.. its not good to fall inlove with him.. from then i never heard about him. one day we see each other then he's looking me.. but thats it..no relation at all.never..
@nielcdg (709)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
Just think of this my friend if he can do that to a girl whom he loves but is far away how about you wouldnt you think he is capable of two timing you, personally I think guys who two time are nothing but scum bags and you deserve better. Lets say he breaks up with her and you became his new girl arent you afraid he will do the same thing. He doesnt know what love is yet because if he did then he would know the long distance girl needs his loyalty and love especially now that she doesnt know what he is doing. Im sorry my friend I just cant imagine it I had a lot of experiences where I would have to choose, I never have two relationships at the same time it should only be one. Even muslims have just one girlfriend at a time.