My trouble

China
June 11, 2007 12:46am CST
I have had a girl friend when I was in the undergraduate school, but we broke up two years ago for some reason.I am 24 now,and my parents often urged me to find a girl friend recently.I just think its no hurry for a girl friend and it doesn't need to be hurry,because to be hurry for that may not have good result.I have told them my thought,but they just didn't understand. How should I explain to my parents? Do you have any suggestion?
4 responses
@ssh123 (31100)
• India
13 Jun 07
If the old relationship is still in mind, you better remove it totally from your mind. Start afresh. 24 years ia not a advanced age for marriage and you can choose your partner in 2 or 3 years and make sure you are absolute honest in your intentions and be sincere in loving and never over do to demonstrate. Girls can make out the melodrama boys play. Plain, straightforward, honest relationships last for ever.
• China
28 Jun 07
Thanks for your advice."plain,straightforward,honest",I'll keep that in mind.
@ssh123 (31100)
• India
28 Jun 07
You are most welcome.
• China
14 Jul 07
Heheheee...it seemed that your problem is very normal in China and your parents do what the most parents will do.I am a Christian,and I thinks my dear god will choose a boy for me:).Everyone has different idea with our life,so don't mind your parents' suggestion so much,just do what you think right,following your feeling lol~~~
• China
14 Jul 07
hehe,I just found that we are peers.Maybe we are kind of the same age.I am not a Christian,but I still hope god could choose the right girl for me,you know,god is generous.I appreciate your reply.
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
I cant understand why your parents are pushing you to get a gf for yourself when youre only 24. Maybe they are only teasing you. I think they should be proud that their son was not rushing to have a gf because that means he wants to concentrate more on the things hes doing now. Like career, job, or whatsoever.
• China
28 Jun 07
Thanks for your reply.But I am sure that my parents were not just teasing me, they are serious about that.
@luisivy (68)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
just don't mind your parents right now.you are still young for that. they just want to test you if you are interested to have a girlfriend. just enjoy and wait for the right girl for you.Tell your parents to wait you are still enjoying your life now and you want to find a girl that they will like.
• China
12 Jun 07
Good points.Thanks for your response and your good advice.