insecurities

Philippines
June 11, 2007 1:14am CST
We cannot please everybody even how nice we are as a person. Is it true?
6 responses
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
let not other people become the source of your frustrations. As a famous talk show said 'you don't have to prove anything to anyone....it's not your problem when they reject you. It's theirs. Only stuck up idiots would require you to please them.
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
yeah you are right. But don't you think you will not be affected if somebody doesn't like you? I mean for me i'm not like that i get easily affected when i know that somebody doesn't like me. But i don't force them to like me and it hurts. i'm very transparent with my feelings.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
it is natural to get hurt when people dont like you, and in fact they dont know yet the real you. but why bother, if they dont like you then dont like them either. wink wink
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
i agree and besides it's their lost if they don't like you.they will miss 1/2 of their lives.
@erwin009 (66)
• China
12 Jun 07
I had ever try hard to please everybody,but finally I realized that it can't work and it's unpractical.May be that we can't please everybody is a good thing, because it can make us to find the differences between different people and see how other people think, we can benefit from that.
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
it's a challenge! it will make us a better person 'cos you will know your strengths and weaknesses.
@raredog (743)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
Its true. I have experienced it many times in my life with some of my boss at my past and present work.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
boss are really hard to please.
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
yup...i feel that that is true...niceness will sometimes be mistaken by other people as an act of trying too hard to please others...
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
people will remember all the bad things you have done and not the good ones.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
yes no matter how nice you are there are concieted people around that would claim they are nicer than you, rather than appreciating what a nice person you are. some people are blinded of what they think they are and forget to see the people around them. but for me no matter what you do just always be the nice person you are, you have to be true to yourself and the true you will shine.
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
I like that.its good to be true.
11 Jun 07
It is impossible to pealse everyone you know simply because what is good/nice for you may not be so for the other person.One man's food is poison to another.Each person has his own view of the world and of good and bad.While you think that you have helped somebody,another may think you show too much pity or something like that.It is inevitable.Also,people have different expectations from us and so do we,When they are not met,there are bound to be differences.There you go!:)