You're married but you still falling for a guy...what would you do?...

Philippines
June 11, 2007 4:53am CST
You're married for 4 years now and you have siblings, even you both have different cultures, tradition and even language you still manage to cope up in their country...but the things is you met a guy and you find him very sweet and caring...your friends even know about your relationship with him and tolerate you...will you fall for the guy and leave your family for him?
5 responses
@Madona1 (2097)
• Gibraltar
12 Jun 07
No, No, No, I would not leave a family and life that I have spent 4 years to build for a 'stranger'. For me, it didn't make sense and was a silly decision. How a woman was so sure that the guy she met was the right one by knowing him for a couple days.
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
wow!!! i like your avatar!!! hehehe Even me i wont live my family for the person i just knew for a couple of days or week.. even he promise me everything... i rather live with the person i knew for 4 years that to exchange my life for the person i just met.... what if he kust want to kill me after leaving my family... who knows what might happened....hehehe... thanks for the post...
@Madona1 (2097)
• Gibraltar
14 Jun 07
Thanks for your compliment. We will be better off if we stay where we are. :-))
• India
12 Jun 07
human beings are like any other creature on this earth.they are most intelligent.but basically they are all animals themselves.it is human being themselves who call them as human.they themselves named human .so their behaviour ,natural instinct is not different from animals.but due to pressure of society they generally restrain themselves.
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
i agree with that... but being human has a standards to follow... that's why we're the most intelligent in this world... basically we follow the society's standard... The MORAL.... Thanks for the post!!!
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
I understand the feeling of one person falling in love with another though already married. But you see, this is against the law and our morals. Just think of your kids. Just think of them how they wll react to you when they learned that you love another man instead of their dad. Do you think they will agree with you. This will test your strength to temptation. Maybe its okay to fall in love but not leave your family. Let the husband commit the mistake first. Then if this will happen, perhaps you have all the reason to be free to love again. Have a nice day.
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
yeah right, let the man commit the sin first... it is better not to be accused of cheating your husband... and being blamed for everything... thanks for the post!!!
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
that's a tough question. i'm not in a position to judge married women who fall for another guy, but i do pray it won't happen to me.
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
yeah i was praying also that those things wont happened to me...but if this happened i still wont exchange my family to a stranger... thnx!!!
@yemberzal (301)
• India
11 Jun 07
This is not any kind of love , it is temptation and one should not keep one,s heart for sale like this , one should try to love the guy one has married and control one,s lust for the sake of kids.Mothers do a lot for children. Even wild animals, see their mothers, how they fight to save their young ones , see loiness
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
mother's love eh?! me also i can bare anything just for the sake of my kid...thnx!