does virginity matter?

@tantal25 (839)
United States
June 11, 2007 6:17am CST
i was just wanna know if virginity matters now a days.
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27 responses
@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
22 Jun 07
I dont believe that virginity matters anymore. Love making is an expression to show your love to your partner. although some value virginity more than others. :)
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• Philippines
20 Jun 07
Nope... 4 me love is important :-)
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• India
20 Jun 07
hi tantal definitely not when he is not ur usband. when a person wants to get married then viginity definitely matters. a person wont marry one who is already done.. with others.. hence virginity matter ....
• Philippines
20 Jun 07
its not only virginity a women could be proud of.
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@shen23 (126)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
for me YES.. that's the only thing you could guarantee to your husband that your not like a trash from others.. so good to feel that your husband can tell how happy he is to take his wife's virginity..
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• India
12 Jun 07
I think virginity does not matter much these days. As most of the girls and boys are engaged in pre-marital relation, then how one can expect virginity from his partner. Most of us find opportunity at least once to experience girl's virginity. After first experience curiocity about this subject ends up. Though there are hard thinker people too, who give much stress on virginity of his partner even after they are not virgin. If virgin boy asks for virgin girl then it is OK but matured one if asked is ridiculous.
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• Philippines
11 Jun 07
Virginity doesn't really matter. As long as you guys are happy living together nor being together why should we have to set the past as the corner of a relationship. Live past behind and be practical. Virginity is not really a big issue but to young men maybe it was because of their curiousity.
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@pelo26 (1553)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
That's a hard thing to answer. I want to answer yes but that's not what reality is nowadays. It would matter to me if I'm going to court a girl but if we have to loose it, let's do it out of love. Hey, I'm really interested with your opinion on this. I think women are better off answering this question. Cheers! Happy Posting :)
@eden32 (3978)
• United States
19 Jun 07
If it matters to you, then that's all that matters. Personally I didn't see any reason to wait until marriage, and I didn't. But if you feel that's important, then you should.
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@sahm35 (891)
• United States
26 Jan 09
I think it matters and I wish that I had been a virgin when I married.
• India
22 Jun 07
yae i think it matters its something related 2 heart not the body it matters a lot i feel
• India
12 Jun 07
no now a days it does not matter.everyone should be cool and relax.S don't worry it safe from varginity
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@djbtol (5501)
• United States
12 Jun 07
Well, you can find plenty of different answers to that question. Most importantly, you will want to ask the man you are going to marry. How about you? How would you like to present yourself as a virgin to your husband someday? Have a great day.
• United States
27 Jul 09
For me, it doesn't really matter. As long as my partner is faithful with me, or hasn't been around like crazy, I'm perfectly fine with it.
• Philippines
7 Jun 09
hmmmmmmmm im curious hehehehe, your so pretty tsktsktsk :(
• Pakistan
24 Feb 08
Yes virginity matter. Because it is a sealed package of gift for those who come to share the pleasures of life.
@sleblanc (114)
• Canada
22 Feb 08
i don't think it does. i'd rather sleep with a virgin than a girl who's been with 15 different guys before me.
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
22 Feb 08
personally its matter to me a lot..as i m virgin n wud love to have my partner aslo virgin...........
@barehugs (8992)
• Canada
12 Feb 08
Virginity matters to the person who is saving it. This person can be very Proud of her Chastity. Nobody else cares! Its a concept thats way out of date. In Canada the genders are equal. Can you imagine a man bragging about his virginity? He would get laughed out of the Bar room! Girls here no longer brag about their virginity. Everyone would think they were a Prude!
• Pakistan
12 Feb 08
you can take vine if you open the cork of the bottle. It means that pack bottle is to open. thus the virginity does no matter now a days. but it is to remember that virginity is like a sealed gift of love.
@rsa101 (13337)
• Philippines
12 Feb 08
Well seems it is not anymore. That is just symbolical in the past but at present times I see it with no value. I value love more than the virginity issue. Although I am a man, I feel requiring women to be virgin is unfair since men are allowed to lose their virginity without any consequence from society. If Virginity should be imposed it should be imposed on men too to make it fair.