Do you believe in second chances?
June 14, 2007 10:30am CST
Here's the situation: A relationship that lasted for almost 2 years. 3rd party is the cause of break-up. The guy dumped the girl for another. After a few weeks, the guy comes back to the girl, asking for forgiveness and begging for a second chance. If you were the girl, will you or will you not take him back?
14 Jun 07
no not at all i won't give him sencond chance..if the person truley loves you then he will not leave you.but if he is then he will definitely leave you at any time for anyone ,then why he is coming back if for the first time he leaves you without any hesitation i couldn't accept..
• United States
14 Jun 07
Well this kind of sounds like my situation. I dated this guy for close to 2 years, I really loved him. And well he left me going back to his ex girlfriend. Well its been a few months now, but hes wanting me back. I dont want him back, because there will always be that fear of him leaving again, and my heart being broken again. Its a really hard decision to make, because there is no saying that he isnt sincire and isnt going ot do it again, but me, I will always have it in the back of my mind that if I went back to him, he would find someone else he wanted to leave me for, or would go back to the first girl he left for. So. I wouldnt be abel to take someone back after this, because of the distrust that would be there. And everytime things go wrong, id think he was going to leave. But I really wonder why he comes back asking for forgiveness, did it not work out? Thats my thing, I know my ex and his current ex didnt work out, and when they did, he came back to me. Im not about to have that happen.