Have you ever "lost yourself" inside a relationship?

@Beth84 (88)
Philippines
June 14, 2007 11:24am CST
You meet an amazing man and you Istantly fall for him and start spending most of your time and energy with him. Your friends and other relationships start to drop away as you see everyone but your boyfriend less and less. And most of your energy and mental focus is spent doing things inside your relationship and for the man you're with.
3 responses
@Madona1 (2097)
• Gibraltar
14 Jun 07
Doesn't anyone know that love is blind? When I used to date one of my ex-boyfriends, I did lose myself inside a relationship. I didn't know why I was so crazy and mad about him. I just wanted to stay with him 24/7 and did whatever I liked to please him. Obviously that type of relationship would not work. And it was a good lesson that I learnt to deal with the later relationship and life.
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@Beth84 (88)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
I think that's not love. It's lust.
14 Jun 07
Sure. Only once though but that was my first relationship things were great while I was going places and had a future playing football. As soon as that got took away, she went and I ended up lost within a bubble. One side wanted to just get on yet feeling lost just brought so much trouble up and I just had to snap out of it. ~Joey
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@Beth84 (88)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
ohhh! just like me before....but now i realize and i'm happy having some time for my self.
@abrarr (1246)
• Pakistan
14 Jun 07
whenever i make a friend i always spend a lot of time with him and i just want him to understand me and try to understand him. this makes our realtionship strong and durable!!
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@Beth84 (88)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
Why always spending time with him?? You have your own life! Do you still have time for your self?