Would You Want To Know If Your Partner Is Cheating?

Nigeria
June 14, 2007 8:47pm CST
Would You Want To Know If Your Partner Is Cheating? or are you one that goes with:WHAT YOU DON'T KNOW CAN'T HURT YOU?
7 responses
@mestr12 (227)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
Yes, i certainly would like to know if my partner is cheating on me. Relationships are based on trust, respect and love and if my partner has broken that trust then why continue with the relationship. I do not want to be the last person to know if my partner is cheating on me. I do not want to waste my time on someone who doesn't deserve my love and fidelity.
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
Of course I rather know that he is cheating on me now than to learn it in the future. According to Oprah show, its better to get hurt now and have your life back, than to be hurt in the future and waste more years of your life with someone you can't trust.
@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
18 Jun 07
Its better that I dont know if he was cheating or not. coz once I find out that he is then I might not be able to forgive him and kill him myself :) thankfully that never happens to me
• United States
15 Jun 07
But what you don't know can hurt you... what if he contracts some type of STD... its not so much as the moral aspect of it but my health is very important
@huilee (1010)
• Singapore
15 Jun 07
I guess i will.. Because i heard of the saying: Knowing it earlier might lessen ur pain.. I mean if i dun wanna noe, it will equals to cheating and lying to myself.. If he ever did me wrong, of coz i wanna noe... I dun wanna let someone cheat me and get of it so easily... Sounds mean do i? Keke... But yah.. Although i agree with u that what i dont know cant hurt me.. But what about in the future.. I dun wanna keep lying to myself either... N if he gets worse? Everything will be bad for me.. So i rather i know it earlier then later...
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
yes i want to know as early as possible. i know it will hurt to know the truth but it's much better to know about it than stay with someone who's cheating on you.
• United States
15 Jun 07
Of course I would want to know, because if someone is cheating on me, what is the point in staying with them? Id rather be with someone who treats me with respect, rather than be with someone who is messing around.