Are you open to your partner about love making?

Couple - Couple in love.
@Neriz69 (1042)
Philippines
June 15, 2007 12:17am CST
Awhile ago I just responded to a mylotter regarding his problem with his friend's wife not being cooperative when it comes to love making. I know that a lot of couples have experienced this at one time or another. Do you talk about it with your partner? Do you tell your partner how you want it done or do you just go through the motions to have it done with because you feel it's an obligation? I believe that love making is part of couples life. I also believe that it's one of the most deepest intimate form of communication and expression of your love to one another. It has to be done with mutual consent from both parties to make it work.
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@k1tten (2321)
• United States
15 Jun 07
Since we started making love, my partner and I have become much closer. Our openness in our relationship transfered to our love making and vice versa. It's better to communicate than to be withdrawn.
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• Philippines
6 Jul 07
For me two thumbs up yes am very open to my partner. Even when am going to office i will txt her that am in the office and even when lunch break i'll txt her and when am going home i'll txt her also. Its my manners to be open with my partner, even if i like to have a love making to her i'll talk to her then we will do it in longer time. Open to your partner is one of the success in stronger relationship.
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@Neriz69 (1042)
• Philippines
29 Aug 07
I also believe that you men are a key to the openess of us women. I hope that there are more like you who can encourage their partners to be open.
• Philippines
26 Aug 07
well me,no.Im not that open to my husband when it comes to lovemaking. Its just that im not comfortable telling him what i want and what i feel about it. Im shy,im afraid that he might think that im too l--stful, and thinks that im a s--t, not contended with what he can offer.And im not also comfortable telling him that im already tired and i feel like not doing it.
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@Neriz69 (1042)
• Philippines
29 Aug 07
That's understandable, your still young. Generally most Filipina are like that.