do you still remember your first lover?
By angela2006
@angela2006 (1845)
China
June 15, 2007 12:36am CST
it is said that it is hardest to forget your first lover,do you think so?and there are so many stories that a person break down their new relationship because of the appearance of their first lover.I do not know why,what has gone is gone,I will not go back.what about you?
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@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
15 Jun 07
I think every lover is hard to forget unless he is a bit crazy (then you would want to forget him as soon as possible). I still remember my first love, I still remember his face at that time, what he said and what he liked. But what's weird with the memory is, the longer the time has passed, the more good things I remember about him. I tend to not remember his negative sides that much even I try to recall. He is married now and I am happy for him *smiles*.
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@angela2006 (1845)
• China
15 Jun 07
yes,it is the best that we can not get,maybe this word is true.
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
19 Jun 07
Even though it has been almost 24 yrs. ago for me, I can still remember him. Even though I am now Married to someone else, and have been for 8 1/2 yrs., I am still friends with my first lover. I dated him on and off for many yrs. back when I was in my 20s. It is really a time I do not regret as my Life was quite rough during a lot of this time. Actually, in all reality, I am Glad and appreciate that he and I are still GREAT friends.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
21 Jun 07
One thing that I do is make a point not to repect relationships. Whatever made the relationship go sour in the first place is probably still a problem, so the relationship will no doubt end the same. I remember my first love, but that seems like a lifetime ago.
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@angela2006 (1845)
• China
21 Jun 07
I think no matter what is the reason that end the relationship,gone is gone.
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@syndibee (799)
• United States
15 Jun 07
i would absolutely never go back, but i've certainly never forgotten either. it wasn't the best experience in my life, it was a learning experience. i remember date and even time of day (ok not exact time). i remember what i was wearing and what he was wearing. i remember it all and it's not a bad memory...but as i said, i would never go back for anything. i have the best relationship at this time in my life and i'm eternally grateful.
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@angela2006 (1845)
• China
15 Jun 07
I can not remember the date ever had,let it alone what I wore,haha,it is a bad memory,and I do not want to recall.
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@Beth84 (88)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
It's really not that hard. I do still remember my first love but not the love I used to feel with him. Yes there are relationships ended because of the appearance with their first love. That's what mostly happened to me but not with my first love, my partner's first love.Because They were still intouch with their first love. I'll be too selfish if I'm still holding on with him while I see that he still love his first love. He have the rights to be happy. And if their relationship doesn't work, i know he'll be begging me to accept him again. But I make sure that he doesn't love his first love anymore or else, I would kill him. HEHEHEHE Not all people see love as what we see it.
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@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
21 Jun 07
Well for me I never forget my first love, that was the first time I was cared by someone, brighten up my day, and inspires me a lot.
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